I suppose on a $5-10K week, where closing on a Hawaii property could be $1000+/-, it might be a deciding factor, but the more I think about Maui prices at $16k OV, $25K OF, and $30K Lahaina OF, it's probably safer to just increase your offer a bit...or if lots of sellers, start low and work your way up from the last ROFR Fail number.
Even on a smaller sale, it would seem to not make much difference, if what the broker told me is correct. The two major ways to structure a deal would be:
1) On a theoretical $4000 sale, with $1000 Hawaii closing costs paid by the Buyer, the Seller would get the contracted $4000 (before paying his broker) if Marriott waives ROFR. If MVC opts to exercise, they are doing their own closing, but could claim/show the same $1000 closing costs on their closing statement - since they are paying them anyway - but their "true" cost is only known to their CPA. We don't really know what it really "costs" an external closing company to close either, all we know is what they "charge", so MVC could also "charge" on paper whatever they want to since they are the Buyer and doing their own work of closing.
2) On that same theoretical $4,000 sale, it could alternatively be structured as a $5,000 sale, with the Seller paying the $1000 closing. So if MVC waives, the Seller gets $5,000 from the Buyer, but then pays closing out of their proceeds and nets the same $4000 as in option #1 above. If Marriott opts to exercise ROFR in this case, the closing statement would show them paying the Seller $5,000, but then perhaps just netting the same $1000 closing costs against their proceeds, so then their net cost is still the same $4,000 (plus their internal costs of closing which would have also been incurred in option #1).
If this is the way it works, which party pays closing shouldn't matter with ROFR. An exception
might be on a points resale where the deal is structured with the Seller paying the $3/point Owner Activation Fee, something that Marriott would not have to pay if they exercised ROFR on a points resale, but by bundling it into the selling price for the points and having the Seller pay it, that might seem to present a more formidable "poison pill" depending on the technical legal wording in the contract of sale. There is no such significant fee of this type in a weeks resale.
Unless we could find an example of a ROFR-exercise closing statement on both types of resale week transactions above, we are still just making educated guesses.