SNA27
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- Nov 27, 2019
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- Rancho Cucamonga CA
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- Grand Desert - Flagstaff - Waikiki-Beachwalk+2PICs - Bonnet-Creek - Smoky-Mountains - NO CWA/NO RESALE
I liked her post because it contributes to the healthy back and forth, regardless how you or anyone else may feel about it. It also reminded me directly of what I outlined and reinforced - which is that I’ve been guilty of not taking the time to search for answers and to be patient and to learn from other long time Wyndham and forum members.
Context is everything. I didn’t “like” the post because of anything to do with you in other words - but that is the potential false assumption and personal interpretation you chose to embrace. Seek first to understand before being understood. I’m not in your head and you are not in my head. The internet is largely tone deaf - and considering up to 90% of direct human interactions when face to face consist of nonverbal communications - the written word leaves a lot open to false interpretations and assumptions.
I’d also humbly submit that your explicit overuse of exclamation points needs to be scaled way back. Exclamation points used on Internet forums are widely known to portray escalation, charged emotion, along with aggression and overt anger when used repeatedly in almost every sentence. I highly doubt you intend your posts to come across this way - and I personally am not interpreting your posts in this manner - but many other people will - and this alone could explain why people are prone to reacting to your posts in the manner that I’ve repeatedly observed. Just some constructive food for thought from one forum member to another.
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It did occur to me that there might have been a 'nugget' in that otherwise inflammatory post that caught your fancy and had nothing to do with me.
I understand your point about punctuation. I actually appreciate it. Thank you. It's a weakness I must work on. I love this Grammarly for correcting my punctuation.
In my defense, I must say that weakness arises from the fact that in my mother tongue, there is no need for punctuation marks. All that is required is 'space' between word clusters and 'full stop' between the sentences. Even a '?' mark is superfluous. No '!' mark either. In fact, in my mother tongue, words are used instead just as the flowchart below recommends.
I learned the English Alphabet at the age of 10 and studied English as a subject before I attempting to speak it at 16 in college. In my undergraduate years, the medium of instruction was English, I had to speak English since most of the student population spoke other languages and English acted as the link language.
English, especially colloquial English, is lost without it! An incredulous exclamation 'I shot the clerk?!' could become a confession 'I shot the clerk.' without correct punctuation. (My Cousin Vinny)