Thank you, THANK YOU, for your input! I've gone over and over the pros/cons of renting the car on STT vs STJ. It really comes down to there being 5 of us, convenience, $$, and the fact I've dragged my hubby to the far corners of the earth and put him behind the wheel of a car. He's driven on the left in Australia and even a jeep on the largest sand island in the world: Frasier Island, which is another entire post...(!) He's more comfortable than I, or this "choice" wouldn't be a choice at all.
I called Dependable and spoke with June. She spent at least 15 minutes with me, maybe more, offering advice and answers. Their cars are also '14, '15 (like Amalie) though their Jeep Liberty model is 2012. I asked about car break downs (they cover) flat tire (we change, using spare, and if tire needs replacing, we pay), car pick up (we call and they'll come pick us up to get the car - we'll be at BestWst near airport night before), insurance (our Amex ok). I don't know how the rental will go, all I can say is so far, they've been professional and helpful. Not so much w/ Avis when I called. I'm trying to prepare for things to go less-than-perfect based on yelp/TA/blog reviews. We reserved the Wrangler Unlimited. June said there is a step-up for my mom (she offered that input, too...I was impressed).
I have learned with this vacation destination that advance preparation (and I mean like, months in advance) is helpful. I am a flight attendant; we fly on passes. Last minute plans are the most accurate for flights, but we try to plan when we can. I will say though, that my family knows better than to ask what time we're leaving, much less what airport we're flying to. We can change itineraries on our way to the airport. This flexibility is what keeps us batting about .900 in making flights, so it's all good. Def not for everyone, but worth it for us.
Bc we started planning late, I could not reserve a day charter with tuggers-renowned Capt. Jason & Island Roots; he was completely booked for the 6 days I gave him to choose, one mo. in advance. Likewise, the #1 TA-ranked Palm Tree Charters was also booked. Both referred me to others, but I found availability with Lion in da Sun, Capt Rick. He seems wonderful from our phone convo and TA reviews (#2) are very good, so looking fwd to that but realized it's helpful to book things like cars and charters a couple months if not more in advance.
I have planned ahead, however, for the sea lice, ordering the Safe Sea that may not even work, but y'know, since I have planned for them, we won't see any. But...at least we'll have something to do at night while we try to rub this thick, clingy substance off our stungfree bodies.
I did reserve a cabana for 1/2 day at the Westin, too. They gave me the owners discount, even though our ownership is at WMH & WLR I think it's $80 for 1p-6p. This is where my 15 yr old will be with his iPad, iPhone and cabana-tv, while some of the most inviting ocean waters in the world lie right in front of him.
*sigh*