OK, I'm finally in. I retired last week from a very sedentary job. DW has been talking about lapbanding. I would support her, but would rather see a genuine effort to lose weight normally- ie. eat less, move more. We have to do this together, or we're doomed to fail.
We started together last Sunday. South Beach, or as close to it as we can stand/remember. So far, I'm down 6.7 lbs in 3 days, Paula's down about 3. We know that in phase 1 (quite restrictive) we'll lose a bunch in water and stuff, then the loss will slow dramatically. I think this will be easier for me, 'cause I'm naturally moving around more and not constantly exposed to fast (fried) food, while DW is still doing her regular office job, though with a Gold's Gym membership. We may expand that to the family plan, but I must say I have no desire to be a 'gym rat'.
Stay tuned.....
Jim Ricks