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@judys, I am truly sorry for your weight and health issues. I understand you not wanting to be made to feel like its your fault.
I guess I just think that giving people the message that it impossible to manage weight seems:
1. Defeatist and counterproductive
2. Inconsistent with logic, since through most of human history, being obese was rare and there has been insufficient time since the start of the obesity epidemic for humans to have evolved into a scenario in which 30% of us are destined to be obese
Being interested in learning who is successful in managing weight & why is not the same thing as telling you that your medical conditions are your fault. If someone else here shares their success in managing weight, it does not imply a criticism of you or anyone who has been unsuccessful.
When I set out to try to lose weight, I read everything that I could on the subject. Some of it was bogus, some of it made sense but did not pertain to me and some of it was stuff I could apply to myself.
The one thing that I never found too helpful however was reading all the articles about why I was destined to never be able to manage my weight. In some ways these articles are helpful because they give you a realistic sense of what you're up against. But they can go too far in making people who already feel a little powerless feel pretty hopeless.
So I'm not suggesting a "pie in the sky" unrealistic approach. Just a focus on the message that "it will be tough, but here's the best things to try".
Hope you feel better and that your book & timeshare business are both successful.
I guess I just think that giving people the message that it impossible to manage weight seems:
1. Defeatist and counterproductive
2. Inconsistent with logic, since through most of human history, being obese was rare and there has been insufficient time since the start of the obesity epidemic for humans to have evolved into a scenario in which 30% of us are destined to be obese
Being interested in learning who is successful in managing weight & why is not the same thing as telling you that your medical conditions are your fault. If someone else here shares their success in managing weight, it does not imply a criticism of you or anyone who has been unsuccessful.
When I set out to try to lose weight, I read everything that I could on the subject. Some of it was bogus, some of it made sense but did not pertain to me and some of it was stuff I could apply to myself.
The one thing that I never found too helpful however was reading all the articles about why I was destined to never be able to manage my weight. In some ways these articles are helpful because they give you a realistic sense of what you're up against. But they can go too far in making people who already feel a little powerless feel pretty hopeless.
So I'm not suggesting a "pie in the sky" unrealistic approach. Just a focus on the message that "it will be tough, but here's the best things to try".
Hope you feel better and that your book & timeshare business are both successful.