Not sure how the SIP laws in each state define essential. AFAIK...Doesn't seem like much difference in our "locked down" state and the "open" one.
In California Petco is considered essential and has been open the entire time. We don't have Dollar Store near us but the 99 cent store is open. Lowes, Walmart and Target are wide open. Our Joanne Fabric will bring to the curb if you order online but you cannot go inside. All of the retail you listed as closed are closed too.
Of course no nail, hairdresser, gyms, or tattoo shops. The tattoo shop closure should make some parents of college kids very happy.