I am so sorry for your loss. I think I briefly met you and your husband, plus another (in)famous TUG member, on Siesta Key back in 2008, when we traveled there to visit with a cousin of mine during his last stages of long-term cancer. (A bittersweet trip; that was the last time I saw my cousin.) I have been following your TUG posts ever since; I know it has been a long journey for you in many ways. My thoughts are with you.