45 years for us last July 4. 7/4/74. Independence Day.
Still have my dress which I made. DH took it to the cleaners to have it cleaned and boxed when our DD was born 13 years after the wedding. She and I opened it when she was planning her wedding and both of us put it on. It didn’t fit either of us but it was fun. She had a piece of the lace sewed to the inside of her dress. She used the veil fabric for her veil.
At around 25 years we started looking for a new diamond ring. I change my mind so often I was afraid of getting one and then being bored with it. I found one and went back to the store for over a year to keep trying it on to see if I still liked it. Then my MIL offered me her mother’s ring. She admitted the setting was old fashioned. I asked if I could have the diamond reset. She consented and we had it set in the ring I had been looking at. I’ve never gotten bored with it.
We had the original diamond mounted on a heart pendant necklace. The wedding band was cut down to a pinky ring but sadly I lost it. I think it slipped off my finger after washing my hands at a rest stop.
Our cake topper was a sweet pair of white doves mounted with heart and lace over a champagne glass. That has lived under a glass dome.
Our unity candle was made by the mother of one of our church friends. It’s still on display somewhere around the house.
Another wedding gift was a standing, hand painted China dish. It sits by the tub for soap.
We still have a box of mementos from the wedding.