For my undergraduate degree I went to a state University. There were a bunch of colleges that were only known locally that were "courting" me. On the advice of my Uncle, he told me to go to state University because outside of my home state, colleges like Gustavus Adolfus, Augsburg College, Hamline U, etc. are not known outside of the local area. Plus they were more expensive. So, I chose to go to a state University. They had a good engineering program and
I could live at home and I could pay for my own books and tuition by working 22 hours a week. (I had to work because "I grew up in a middle-class family..." - - actually a lower middle-class family). I wanted to go to RPI, Stanford, MIT or a "big name" school but that wasn't going to work financially. Living a home and taking the bus or "thumbing" saved a ton of money. Money that I didn't have. Living away from home plus tuition is double the cost of just tuition.
So, I was lucky living in a city with a state university and being able to live at home. But the first two years of college were brutal and were intended to weed out the weaker students. In the first calculus class, the professor told us to "look to your left and then look to your right...in 4 years neither of those students will still be in the engineering program". My physics lecture was held in an auditorium with about 500 other students. (No individual attention for help). That was a distinction from the "boutique" no-name schoos. As some personal background - - I had gone to an intercity high school that was #18 out of 19 city high schools. (Bottom of the scale). So, I wasn't nearly as well prepared for math and science as many of the other students. In fact, my high school didn't even OFFER solid geometry or trig. Yikes. I was probably 1 to 2 years behind the students from Taiwan, India, Japan, etc. So I struggled.
But, the OP didn't mention the skill level and scholastic ranking of his neighbor's child. It is great to want to go into a tech industry. But that student probably needs to be in the top 5 or 10 percent of the math and science students in high school. In my high school with about 350 graduates, only one applicant (me) was accepted by the Institute of Technology of my state University.
So, "wanting" to go into "tech" (which is super broad) needs to be matched with scholastic achievements, GPA's, and IMHO, the "drive" of that person.
Me? I was kind of a technical nerd with an interest in how things worked, a lot of drive and I miraculously graduated in four years with a BSEE as an electronic engineer. ....But I actually wanted to be a doctor, perhaps orthopedics. But financially I didn't think that would work out. My Dad was a restaurant cook and my Mom cleaned houses and babysat. I washed dishes.