Don't have that many weeks per se but if the calendar for the rest of 2025 holds, DW and I will have been away from home 49.04% of the year.
Rick is trying to get the gazebo built. It's a fantastic structure, so much detail, lots of color-matched white paint to the columns and handrails, which are vinyl, building it from scratch, all by himself. 16 feet, 8 sides, Trex decking on top of the substantial subfloor. It's coming along but the building department is going to close out his building permit if he doesn't get it done by the end of October. He is under a lot of stress, which makes his back hurt.
It's a huge project, probably the most difficult he's done with all of the detail. He built a garage, which is 24 X 36 in the back yard when the kids were still in elementary school. He needed a bigger workshop and the two-car garage wasn't enough for our cars and his working space. Then he added onto that 10 years ago to make more storage space.
The goal is to create less work in the yard eventually. There will be pavers around the gazebo with patches of artificial grass with the pavers. So much work, but when it's done, less grass is good, less dirt is good. The pond is another big project. So glad we have a plan for it. The old pond was leaking.
Our trips have caused significant delays in his plans. It's become a sort of eye-raising banter, you could call it. Rick says to friends and family who inquire of the progress, "I would have it done by now, if we didn't go on so many vacations." Then an eyeroll toward me. It's all in fun, until I realize that it's really causing him stress to leave his project again. If we go with the kids and grandkids, he loves those trips, but the others, not as much.
My dearest friend just laughs when he says it. I see her three times a week between church, Bible study and Wednesday church activities. My brother gives the raised-eye look to Rick, knowing how Rick is really feeling. My brother does hardscapes. He knows how difficult projects like this are. His crew won't even build a pergola, let alone a gazebo.