I remember the only time we were invited to visit my in laws after they moved to sun city arizona
it was118, and it was miserable.
we had cans of coke in the car and they exploded.
the in-laws refused to use the ac, and used a swamp cooler. She kept the house at 88 degrees
my kids were 7 and11 and only allowed to use the pools between 11 and one. I learned that you have to wear shoes to the edge of the pool or you will burn your feet.
My kids were both in the highest level of swim classes at the Y, but got whistled out of the pool constantly.
my mother in laws idea of a good time was to drive around and look at houses. we never found any activities to do.
we stayed four days and decided to move on, after we had packed up, the man next door came over and said the kids could use the pool.
we drove to Tucson to visit my aunt after four days. She worked, but had all kinds of activities lined up for us to do. And she turned the ac on.