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Psychiatrist here and I could speculate for a while about the psychological rationale about this pool chair nonsense (hint - it is not about the pool chairs): sense of power, sense of control, competitive advantage, pissed off at someone else... take your pick.
But none of that helps the OP, and blahblah18, I feel immensely sorry for you and your family just trying to occupy chairs for your real, present family - or BIS, butts in seats, what FlyerTalk calls actual flyers rather than people with multiple credit cards as is the love of the airlines these days. People like these chair hogs (which are among the worst I have read on TUG) make the other decent people infuriated for good reason, and they never end up in my office wondering why they do such selfish, hurtful things to others. For no rational reason.
But I do appreciate your idea about throwing items in the pool . True story: we flew to Costa Rica to a very nice resort years ago and arrived hot and tired after a day of travel. We went down to the pool to cool off and there was a woman in the pool talking loudly on her cell phone in this gorgeous, peaceful setting. I tolerated it for a while and finally said to my husband, in what I thought was an out of hearing range comment, "I swear, if she doesn't stop talking I am going to throw that phone in the pool". She quietly stopped talking and started to enjoy the pool. (That will likely not work for the folks you are dealing with but...)
But none of that helps the OP, and blahblah18, I feel immensely sorry for you and your family just trying to occupy chairs for your real, present family - or BIS, butts in seats, what FlyerTalk calls actual flyers rather than people with multiple credit cards as is the love of the airlines these days. People like these chair hogs (which are among the worst I have read on TUG) make the other decent people infuriated for good reason, and they never end up in my office wondering why they do such selfish, hurtful things to others. For no rational reason.
But I do appreciate your idea about throwing items in the pool . True story: we flew to Costa Rica to a very nice resort years ago and arrived hot and tired after a day of travel. We went down to the pool to cool off and there was a woman in the pool talking loudly on her cell phone in this gorgeous, peaceful setting. I tolerated it for a while and finally said to my husband, in what I thought was an out of hearing range comment, "I swear, if she doesn't stop talking I am going to throw that phone in the pool". She quietly stopped talking and started to enjoy the pool. (That will likely not work for the folks you are dealing with but...)