David, you're right, I didn't reserve AMS-LAX but AMS - ORD. Sorry for the confusion, I was very tired when I wrote that post.
We made it to HNL - it only took a little longer. The planes were very old - it reminded us of flights within China and India - 20 years ago.
Luckily we have the best kids in the world when it comes to flying - they were great and didn't even notice that tv screens were not working and that in the other planes, the tv screens weren't available. They had a good time anyway. We were/are with friends and still had a good time too.
We ended up taking LHR-FRANKFURT-SFO-HNL.
It was the best they would do for us on that day - we had to wait until Tuesday to get better flights. We thought Tuesday, although better than Thursday which they offered earlier, was still too late
So - originally we had AMS-ORD-HNL. Then in February they added LHR and very recently they changed it to AMS-LHR - spend a night there - SFO- HNL.
Our flight to LHR was on Friday.
On Friday morning, I received that message telling me that the flight LHR-SFO was delayed for 48 hours. When I called United (they only left me a message) - the first reply I got was that nothing had changed, it wasn't in their system etc. etc.. I didn't really trust that and called again, and was told that they probably called the wrong person for the wrong flight. But, the message did mention our reservation code....Again, didn't really trust it and called again and this time they could see it.
They wanted us to do LHR-FRANKFURT-LHR (yes, again LHR)-SFO-HNL. It did take them almost the whole day to let us go from Frankfurt to SFO without doing LHR again.
They couldn't get me on SWISS, since that is not a full partner? I thought it was but I am not so familiar with Staralliance.
I must admit though, that I didn't check any availability for these days myself. Don't ask me why, as I have done that before, but now it simply didn't even cross my mind to check for myself!!!
We did Frankfurt-SFO on Lufthansa. Now they were telling me that since I was booked on UA - I don't get miled for the LH part of the flight?!
If so - can I still get them on our Miles and More accounts? I was happy with our elite status match for UA - I don't like Miles and More when it comes to booking flights with miles. But I hate not getting miles at all.
Last - not kidding - I just received a message regarding a change for our flights back home.... We now have to do OGG-SFO-IAD-LHR-AMS instead of OGG-ORD-AMS.....
Something tells me that I will not book UA again anytime soon. I know, it happens with all airlines, but I never had it like this before - on any airline.
Will have a look at Youtube later - I am going to wake up the kids now (they are all taking a nap) otherwise they will not adjust to Hawaiian time...
Thanks for the suggestions and for listening/reading...