For what it's worth, I found all the comments about the wind in Aruba interesting. Admittedly, there is one area by the front that they were going to be doing something to mitigate the wind tunnel effect (I think it already has been corrected), but other than that small area, the wind that has elicited so many complaints was one of the things that enhances our stay. We have not experienced sand blowing in our faces that others have complained about, but just found the breeze very refreshing.
My 81 year old mother with rheumatoid arthritis had no problem keeping her balance; as a matter of fact, she enjoyed laying on the beach there because it was so comfortable, whereas in other places she hates to lie on the beach.
I also think there is a great variety of excellent restaurants, most of which I think are reasonably priced, but again that is our vantage point. I do know that I have paid more for inferior meals elsewhere.
Again, I realize and respect that others have different preferences. If you are considering the three locations and haven't been to them, and if you like cruising, you might consider a Caribbean cruise that visits them to experience the areas yourself. As you have seen, most of the posters here have their favorites, and you may not want to rely on strangers' opinions for a purchase. On the other hand, all three will give you a great vacation experience.