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Running a Marathon without a finish line.

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I'm not the least bit athletic, and I know I'm carrying a very light load during this pandemic. But when I read the words above I felt myself say "yes'.
(This was from a story where families with children shared their staying at home stories.)
 

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Is that a metaphor for life???
 

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Yes, I suppose it is that as well. I was referring to SIP requirements, which would be the life metaphor with hurdles added to the mix, but still no finish line in sight.

well, there are some "goal posts"
I'll be happy when the beaches re-open and sports is back up
 

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well, there are some "goal posts"
I'll be happy when the beaches re-open and sports is back up
I'm speaking from my place of frustration when I say they keep moving the goal posts. Whatever happened to -- "we are doing SIP to flatten the curve".
 

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I'm speaking from my place of frustration when I say they keep moving the goal posts. Whatever happened to -- "we are doing SIP to flatten the curve".
Did someone promise you that once the curve flattens that everything will be back to normal? There was no instruction book available with specific dates and goal posts.
 

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Whatever happened to -- "we are doing SIP to flatten the curve".
I think the problem is, that was never going to be able to be the end point. There was always the question of what would happen after the curve was flattened but the virus was still out there and just as dangerous, and we should have taken that time to have an honest national discussion about what needed to come next. We should have been ramping up for a continuing mitigation strategy, and we should have been setting expectations all along for whatever the next phase was going to be. Because from day 1 it was going to be a marathon without a finish line, not a game where we could see the goalposts. So people now think that there's been a moving of the goalposts, when any goalposts were really just an illusion.
 

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Did someone promise you that once the curve flattens that everything will be back to normal? There was no instruction book available with specific dates and goal posts.
Nope, no promises. But, I was given a reason 'why" I needed to do this thing, and I accepted it. Maybe it's my little girl issue/tape of never being able to do something "good enough'" that's playing here.
 

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Nope, no promises. But, I was given a reason 'why" I needed to do this thing, and I accepted it. Maybe it's my little girl issue/tape of never being able to do something "good enough'" that's playing here.

in some areas the curve has been 'flattened' but this virus may hang around
yes, kinda like a marathon without a finish line ! ;)
 

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Definitely doesn't feel like running, much slower than that. I had actually thought this thread would be about someone deciding to train for a marathon... and took several posts for me to figure out what it was about.

It does depend on what county, where, being discussed in terms of flattened curves. For some of us, the worst isn't yet past. For all of us, we don't actually know if the worst is ahead of us. There is not a definitive "we've flattened the curve" that applies to the US. Hot spots keep emerging in various parts of the country. Still some whack-a-mole going on, and I suspect that this is how it will be for quite some time (the whack-a-mole, not the Stay Home). Nobody promised me anything, certainly not a return to normal, not a cure, not a treatment, not a vaccine, not a timeline. There are also no promises that stay at home orders won't come again if flareups occur.

We have been buying time. To learn more about this virus, to find treatments, to get more PPE made, to figure out how to do school, work, supply chains ... and, yes, to try to not swamp our hospitals. Who can forget stories out of Italy about first those over 80 having to be passed over for help, and then age 60+! We don't know that this won't happen here, as furloughs of healthcare workers continue and others fall to the virus. Or quit.

It seems to me that there was not any kind of "end point". Even if someone took that leap and put a date out there, the virus is in charge, not any human.

....Maybe it's my little girl issue/tape of never being able to do something "good enough'" that's playing here.

Not at all sure what you're referring to here? If it's about somehow not mastering Stay Home, well, forgive yourself. Nobody I know had any practice with that, except the periodic ice storm or blizzard, measured in days. If it's that somehow you don't feel you're getting Good Enough info or reliable enough or, etc., well, that's all of us. Every day something changes, it is the only thing we can rely upon.

If your family or friends are giving you crap for something or nothing, well, they get to demand perfection from you as soon as they practice it 100% themselves. Give yourself a break. None of this is normal and for many, far from easy. Slow to a jog. Enjoy the scenery.
 

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Nope, no promises. But, I was given a reason 'why" I needed to do this thing, and I accepted it. Maybe it's my little girl issue/tape of never being able to do something "good enough'" that's playing here.

I think it's reasonable to assume that since the widely disseminated reasoning for shelter in place was to flatten the curve, that shelter in place would end once the curve was flattened.

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