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Retirement Discussions - respect for DaveNV/Dave Slater

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The DaveNV/Dave Slater RIP thread has ventured into some side discussions about retirement planning and events. I suggest that, to honor Dave and his memory, let's keep that thread focused on condolences and discussions about Dave. If you want to talk retirement, can we do that in this thread?
 
Great idea to start this thread, especially out of respect for Dave.
DH retired at 57 from a branch of the Ontario Civil Service since his years of service plus his age added up to the magical number. His pension is based on his best 5 years of earnings, not his last thankfully, so it is pretty good. When a co-worker asked him why he was retiring at such a young age he said my pension is going to be $500./ month less than my current salary and I am spending $400. / month on gas driving to an from work so why would I come to work for $25. / week?

I worked with a team of approximately 30 mostly women at the long term care home and most were my age or a few years younger. 15 of those women have died and almost all of them before they got to retire. Strangely 13 of them died of pancreatic cancer, the other 2 were other types of cancer, so none got to enjoy retirement. Many were eligible to retire at 60 like me but chose to continue to build up their pensions and then ended up not even retiring. So sad.

A very good friend of my dad's retired along with my dad when Bell had a retirement incentive many years ago. They were both in their late 50's with around 40 years service with Bell so they were getting a good pension. They retired in May and they were both looking forward to spending much more time at their cottages (that were about 500 ft apart) over the summer instead of just their 3 weeks of vacation. In the July dad's friend developed a nagging cough and within a few weeks was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer and died that November. So much for his retirement!

So the lesson seems to be to retire as soon as you are able and enjoy retirement, do the travelling or whatever, especially if your health is good, because you never know how long it is going to last.

~Diane
 
I retired a few years ago at 63 - my job just stressed me out (unnecessarily so). My blood pressure dropped 20 points almost immediately. So that was good. Unfortunately I still haven't gotten into any kind of satisfying routine. I am going to try to take some art classes but having unfilled blocks of time has been unsettling for me. I miss the structure of work but not the constant issues out of my control. If anyone has any tips for this, let me know!

We thought that we would just travel up the wazoo, but we have two new grandkids, plus my in-laws have needed a lot of care so we are mostly doing some type of caregiving in between trips. It is what it is, but it is not what we expected.
 
For art classes - check into Osher Lifelong Learning Institute Olli at a local university. I tend not to take classes as I miss half of them due to travel. My local Olli has interest groups that meet roughly once a week. One of those is an art group.
 
Retirement sounds great. Question for those that retired super early in their 50's?
While it sure sounds great and I am happy you were able to achieve this lifetime milestone, how did you pay for healthcare? Considering this was well before ACA? Now with premiums sky high how would you fund healthcare since you are not eligible for Medicare?

It's possible you may have a portfolio over $10,000,000?
 
We just had some friends visit. The wife is 61 and was recently diagnosed with ALS. It’s a truly foul disease. I’m glad for them that they’re both retired for 5 years now but she’s not going to get to enjoy that much more time. My brother died at 42. I turn 60 this year and feel a clock ticking.

My job is dysfunctional and about to get worse. However I love my research- it’s interesting, impactful, and meaningful. I have two first author publications, two currently under peer review, one 95% complete, and a Very Important second author one that should be complete by the end of the year. Plus 2 mentee publications in progress. I’ve managed to form an amazing collaborative relationship with the hottest researcher at our university, plus collaborations with Cambridge, the University of Helsinki, North Carolina State and Louisiana State. All in 2.5 years, with no prior research experience, and with research being only 30% of my job. Last year, I mentored research projects for a high school student, an undergrad, a vet student, an intern, a specialty intern, and a resident- basically every level of learner I could mentor. Three presented oral abstracts (including my high school student!) at scientific meetings and three have authored scientific publications. I have university start up funds and I was just awarded a nice sized internal grant. Somehow I’ve managed to create a research program out of thin air.

You would think my department head would love this but actually not so much. None of it means much unless I’m bringing in big grant dollars which I probably never will except in collaboration with my main research partner. However that collaboration will almost certainly start getting biggish external grants in a year or two because we’re laying strong some very strong foundations.

So retire or no? I don’t really have enough saved. My financial planner says I could just retire now, but I have no margin. It almost certainly would be ok- I’m my mother’s sole heir and it’s basically not possible for her to run through her money, so I’ll inherit my margin eventually. I could also do locum work and make six figures working around 16 weeks a year, which I wouldn’t love but could do.

I’ll know more next week about whether my jobs going to get worse, better or stay the same. Which will hopefully provide some clarity about the question of retiring or not. Except for the research, I feel done!
 
The DaveNV/Dave Slater RIP thread has ventured into some side discussions about retirement planning and events. I suggest that, to honor Dave and his memory, let's keep that thread focused on condolences and discussions about Dave. If you want to talk retirement, can we do that in this thread?
Thanks Steve. Good idea all around.
 
Retirement sounds great. Question for those that retired super early in their 50's?
While it sure sounds great and I am happy you were able to achieve this lifetime milestone, how did you pay for healthcare? Considering this was well before ACA? Now with premiums sky high how would you fund healthcare since you are not eligible for Medicare?

It's possible you may have a portfolio over $10,000,000?
when I retired at 53, I had an individual plan for $100/mo. I was stuck in a miserable job situation with lots of layoffs happening and thought I was stuck to maintain access to a group health plan. A colleague, who was retiring with access to a better plan, told me they found a better plan for less money on the individual market. It was a game changer. I also realized, after running the numbers in various scenarios, that you don't really need a million dollars to retire. I'm thrifty and have no debt. I was able to ride out the recession while also traveling and grow the money I had. The ACA came into play about the time that I needed a change to that individual plan. That worked until Medicare.
It all depends on your individual needs and how much you actually need/want to spend. Don't go with 'conventional wisdom' but rather take a close look at your own situation and needs. You might be surprised.
 
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So retire or no? I don’t really have enough saved. My financial planner says I could just retire now, but I have no margin. It almost certainly would be ok- I’m my mother’s sole heir and it’s basically not possible for her to run through her money, so I’ll inherit my margin eventually. I could also do locum work and make six figures working around 16 weeks a year, which I wouldn’t love but could do.
You have choices; remember that when your boss is getting to you. If your financial guy says you have enough, plus the future inheritance, but especially being able to make 6 figures in 16 weeks as a back up; you can retire. If you can make enough to cover your annual expenses in a few months; why not? The question is do you want to?
You love 30% of your job and it sounds like that part is really feeding your soul. On the other hand, that same job has the PIA boss that is a drag on your soul. So the question is where do things balance out? Realizing that you can safely quit at any time might make it easier to ignore your boss, but you are in a system that prioritizes (and might need) that grant money brought in now rather than later. Does that 16 week work take the place of the 30% you love in your current job?
 
Retirement sounds great. Question for those that retired super early in their 50's?
While it sure sounds great and I am happy you were able to achieve this lifetime milestone, how did you pay for healthcare? Considering this was well before ACA? Now with premiums sky high how would you fund healthcare since you are not eligible for Medicare?

It's possible you may have a portfolio over $10,000,000?
I retired four years ago at age 56 (along w/ my wife, same age); no pension, no retirement medical benefits, just our retirement savings. It's all in the planning, and we had a great financial planner that helped us out. We knew going in that healthcare would be our biggest expense in retirement and it has been -- by far. We made a very conservative retirement plan: allowing large margins for our spending plans, and using the "significantly below average market conditions" assumptions for predicting portfolio performance. We would have annual reviews with our advisor, and one year his first question for us was, "Why are you still working?" We were at the point where our (very conservative) retirement plan was funded to the point of being greater than a 95% chance of success. So we pulled the trigger.

Looking back over four years now, a few items have gone "off plan", but overall we are still perfectly fine.

Negative influences:
1) General inflation was higher than was in our plan, especially the first couple of years.
2) Healthcare costs have risen more than expected. This was by far the biggest impact item.

Positive influences:
1) Our real estate values have increased significantly. We purchased a second home in early 2021, just before a major price boom in that area so we got lucky there.
2) Portfolio growth (about a 70/30 equity/bond mix) has significantly outperformed our plan, and has even outperformed the "average" and "above average" market conditions that they ran with the Monte Carlo simulations.

The best advice regarding retiring early is to have a solid, conservative retirement plan with the help of a competent financial planner. You certainly don't need $10 million to have a good retirement, even with paying full-price healthcare until Medicare kicks in. We definitely have not regretted our decision to retire when we did, and are taking full advantage of it by doing a ton of traveling now, as you never know when health issues will limit your travel.

Kurt
 
Retirement sounds great. Question for those that retired super early in their 50's?
While it sure sounds great and I am happy you were able to achieve this lifetime milestone, how did you pay for healthcare? Considering this was well before ACA? Now with premiums sky high how would you fund healthcare since you are not eligible for Medicare?

It's possible you may have a portfolio over $10,000,000?
I retired at 58, after 35 years at a large company. The timing was great. The company was still offering a corporate sponsored retiree medical plan. That disappeared shortly after I left. They were still offered a pension plan. That's gone now too, replaced by a lump sum plan. They're still paying me from a health reimbursement account, which covers some of the medical insurance. New retirees just get a lump sum. I could have made considerably more money by staying until 65, but I knew I'd have enough. It's been 18 years and I never regretted it.
 
More Gen Xers believe in UFOs than believe that SS or Medicare—which we’ve been paying into our whole lives—will be around when we retire. Glad that y’all are enjoying it! ;)


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Unfortunately I still haven't gotten into any kind of satisfying routine. I am going to try to take some art classes but having unfilled blocks of time has been unsettling for me. I miss the structure of work but not the constant issues out of my control. If anyone has any tips for this, let me know!
Don't try to replicate the structure, it is an artificial control mechanism designed to provide productive output for the organisation, not to meet the needs of the human body and mind. Allow yourself the luxury of deciding if your body and brain really are suited to that approach and allow things to evolve over a few years and feel free to change it as and when you want.

I'm not advocating casting off all social norms and conventions, but being selective about the ones that you are prepared to participate in, ditching the ones you don't want and knowledgeable about the ones that work well for you. It takes a lot of time to unlearn the perception that unfilled blocks of time are unsettling, they really don't need to be. What would really be the problem if they weren't?
 
So, semi-retired. Left my last job at the end of Feb, but the company is good about it and I am supposed to receive severance pay sometime this month. I have a healthy retirement plan, but I am not quite ready and I am looking for another position. I found an ideal one that only requires me to be in the office on Monday's and have a final interview for that next week. I could do that sort of job for another year or so and then might be finally ready to retire.
 
Great idea to start this thread, especially out of respect for Dave.
DH retired at 57 from a branch of the Ontario Civil Service since his years of service plus his age added up to the magical number. His pension is based on his best 5 years of earnings, not his last thankfully, so it is pretty good. When a co-worker asked him why he was retiring at such a young age he said my pension is going to be $500./ month less than my current salary and I am spending $400. / month on gas driving to an from work so why would I come to work for $25. / week?

I worked with a team of approximately 30 mostly women at the long term care home and most were my age or a few years younger. 15 of those women have died and almost all of them before they got to retire. Strangely 13 of them died of pancreatic cancer, the other 2 were other types of cancer, so none got to enjoy retirement. Many were eligible to retire at 60 like me but chose to continue to build up their pensions and then ended up not even retiring. So sad.

A very good friend of my dad's retired along with my dad when Bell had a retirement incentive many years ago. They were both in their late 50's with around 40 years service with Bell so they were getting a good pension. They retired in May and they were both looking forward to spending much more time at their cottages (that were about 500 ft apart) over the summer instead of just their 3 weeks of vacation. In the July dad's friend developed a nagging cough and within a few weeks was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer and died that November. So much for his retirement!

So the lesson seems to be to retire as soon as you are able and enjoy retirement, do the travelling or whatever, especially if your health is good, because you never know how long it is going to last.

~Diane
I'm going to go one further - you never know when you'll have an accident, a health status change, whatever - don't put off everything till you retire, even if you're pretty sure you can retire early. Work Life balance - use your vacation time at work, figure out flex time or WF where you are, look for jobs that don't expect you 24/7/365 or even "fight" to take 1 week. My dad had a massive heart attack and quadruple bypass at 60. My mom is fighting colon cancer at 65. My dad was lucky, he got 23 more years and was able to do many things and a few trips till he was about 75. My mom has a good prognosis and is supposed to finish up this year with treatment - we're crossing our fingers. That said, I have old highschool friends who are basically bed bound from odd fluid retention diseases and no healthcare access, my younger sister has some chronic exhaustion where she can't get out of bed for a day or two plus migraines, She has friends from college who are basically disabled from an untreated fructose allergy. These are people in their late 30s.

I'm glad I have been lucky enough to be mostly healthy enough and energetic enough to do things other than work - I do believe we all are on a ticking clock, and in a lot of horrible ways it's not death but sudden disability or sickness that's getting many people I know. At pretty early ages in their late 20s initially. It's one reason I do sort of scoff at the retirement maxxers out there - in my group of people, that's a heck of a gamble to take that you'll be able to use any retirement money at all for more than medical bills, and TBH, kind of like when we were applying to colleges, I don't see any reason to bust my ass to hand money over to a medical system when the outcome of using medicare or insurance is basically the same.

I'm not saying don't have a retirement plan or savings, but I am saying for me if I was choosing between trying to max out the allowable yearly contribution with the plan of making it worth it when I'm 70 1/2 (max out social security) and a reasonable contribution with trips, hobbies, and doing things NOW - I suggest getting some of that NOW experiences in.

The other thing that might or might not be medical is that the older people I knew also just naturally seemed to want to stay home and rest more the older they got, so again, aside from feeding medical systems, they didn't need masses of money anyway.
 
Retirement sounds great. Question for those that retired super early in their 50's?
While it sure sounds great and I am happy you were able to achieve this lifetime milestone, how did you pay for healthcare? Considering this was well before ACA? Now with premiums sky high how would you fund healthcare since you are not eligible for Medicare?

It's possible you may have a portfolio over $10,000,000?
We went on the state teachers retirement health insurance. It was not very good and cost quite a lot more than we had been paying and was not suitable for traveling. We were relieved when we aged into Medicare after ten years on the plan, but the state teachers supplement plan was pretty bad too. Anyhow, I figure that in the year 2000, we had to budget $10000 each for medical expenses, insurance, copays, prescriptions , out of pocket expenses.
When I look back, I realize that my husband was showing signs of Alzheimer’s when he turned 65. He was probably realizing something was wrong long before that.
 
Our Retirement is Funded from 5 different sources - both have State Retirement (defined Benefit Plan based upon years of service and high 3 years of income), Social Security, and my Military Retirement from 20 years Active Duty and Reserves. Our Medical is covered by Medicare and Military Tricare for Life. So we pay very little out of pocket. Patti has had 2 knee surgeries and I was in the Hospital for 10 days with pancreatitis and we never received a Bill. Current State Employees are under a Defined Contribution Plan. Also as part of the State Plan you could opt to have your Spouse to continue receiving the State Retirement when you die. We both opted for that. It is funded by only a slight reduction in your monthly payment. The surviving spouse can then opt back to the higher amount.

Retiring early was in part because of the Family History on my side. My Paternal Grandfather died at 37 of a major Heart Attack. My Father died at 61.5. I have now out lived my Grandfather by 35 years and my Father by 12 years. We have enjoyed our 13+ years of retirement. We still travel 12+ weeks a year.
 
As The Tubes sang - What do you want from life? Retirement is just a part of it.

I started planning for retirement back in my 20's, even though I never expected to live long enough to enjoy it. (Bad health problems in my youth and early 20's). Ignored all the "settled wisdom" of retirement planning, did my own thing. I was a mainframe computer programmer for my entire career, never a manager (by choice). By 2005, I became a contract programmer, just to avoid the corporate politics. From 2006 to 2020, I worked around 60% of the time, on average. Saved all I could, as you never knew when the next contract would be. Retired due to the COVID epidemic at 63 1/4. (I had planned to work until 64, but stuff happens . . .)

But lifestyle is key. An econobox car gets you to where you are going just as readily as a super luxury car, but saves you lots of money for other things. I'd rather look poor and be rich over looking rich and being poor - YMMV. Aftermarket timeshares instead of a second home. ect. (The Frugal Gourmet concept. I picked this up from a book published in 1976 - Andrew Tobias' The Only Investment Guide You'll Ever Need.) I paid taxes in advance (when every investment planner in the world seemed to say that doing that was stupid) to convert all my IRAs (and rolled in 401Ks) to Roth IRAs. Bought a nice house in a nice neighborhood in 1992 with my brother (both of us are conformed bachelors), when houses in D/FW were going for a song. (Still living there!)

Why do I mention all of this? The result has been a champaign retirement on a beer budget. (Or maybe just a imported beer retirement on a domestic beer budget ;) ) Car payment? Haven't made one since 2003. Mortgage? Small one kept deliberately to act as a block for housing identity theft protection (a quirk in Texas law, not applicable anywhere else). It was taken out against the paid for house, with the amount used to buy an investment, (which has over tripled since then). I have always been substituting capital for cash flow, so in retirement, I need little cash flow. Utilities, food, gasoline, annual house taxes (which are frozen), various insurances (house, car, and health) and a $260 mortgage. Everything else is luxuries, for which I can spend as much, or as little, as I please (other than the timeshare MFs) from my monthly budget. Any major purchase from from my capital investment. As for cashflow, I bought 3000 shares of Altria (the old Phillip Morris) for the dividend. It is now slightly over $1000 a month, tax free because it is inside the Roth IRA. (And I don't pay any income tax. My taxable income comes in at under the standard deduction, so no taxes owed. Bonus for playing the game and winning. . . :p )

This may not be your lifestyle, which is fine. Re-read my first line above. . .
 
We took advantage of the $500k capital gain exemption on selling the primary residence, where we had lived the previous 25 years of our working life. That helped cover expenses until reaching Medicare/SS FRA and allowed some 401k to Roth conversions.

It was hard to let go of the family home, but letting go of "stuff" and downsizing was liberating.
 
Don't try to replicate the structure, it is an artificial control mechanism designed to provide productive output for the organisation, not to meet the needs of the human body and mind. Allow yourself the luxury of deciding if your body and brain really are suited to that approach and allow things to evolve over a few years and feel free to change it as and when you want.

I'm not advocating casting off all social norms and conventions, but being selective about the ones that you are prepared to participate in, ditching the ones you don't want and knowledgeable about the ones that work well for you. It takes a lot of time to unlearn the perception that unfilled blocks of time are unsettling, they really don't need to be. What would really be the problem if they weren't?
After talking with many people about retirement, I have found that retirement can look very different from person to person. Some, like @klpca want defined routines in their day-to-day life, some are more flexible; some need to work on goals or a project or retire "into something else", whereas others are happy to take things as they come with no real plan.

I found out I am on the flexible side of the spectrum (which I didn't realize until I retired). When people ask me what I do in retirement, I honestly say, "Whatever I want." I have no grand plan -- I absolutely enjoy getting up most days with an open slate to do whatever I feel like that day. Very few defined routines other than social activities, sport leagues, etc. I like working on some projects, but I don't generally set timelines for them. For example, I recently completed painting the whole interior of our house -- ceilings, walls, trim; the works. Some (many) may consider that "work", but I have never minded painting. Since I didn't have a set schedule, each day I could decide if I wanted to do some painting that day or not -- no stress. There would be weeks where I didn't paint at all, and other stretches where I painted every day. In the end, the project was enjoyable, and I am one that gets great satisfaction in a job done well.

I realize that I am probably atypical of most retired people. A good college friend of mine was laid off from his job last year and financially could have easily retired. He tried for a few months, but he didn't like all the free time so he went back to work. I know of several people that take more than one attempt to retire before it actually sticks. Different strokes for different folks.

Kurt
 
I retired four years ago at age 56 (along w/ my wife, same age); no pension, no retirement medical benefits, just our retirement savings. It's all in the planning, and we had a great financial planner that helped us out. We knew going in that healthcare would be our biggest expense in retirement and it has been -- by far. We made a very conservative retirement plan: allowing large margins for our spending plans, and using the "significantly below average market conditions" assumptions for predicting portfolio performance. We would have annual reviews with our advisor, and one year his first question for us was, "Why are you still working?" We were at the point where our (very conservative) retirement plan was funded to the point of being greater than a 95% chance of success. So we pulled the trigger.

Looking back over four years now, a few items have gone "off plan", but overall we are still perfectly fine.

Negative influences:
1) General inflation was higher than was in our plan, especially the first couple of years.
2) Healthcare costs have risen more than expected. This was by far the biggest impact item.

Positive influences:
1) Our real estate values have increased significantly. We purchased a second home in early 2021, just before a major price boom in that area so we got lucky there.
2) Portfolio growth (about a 70/30 equity/bond mix) has significantly outperformed our plan, and has even outperformed the "average" and "above average" market conditions that they ran with the Monte Carlo simulations.

The best advice regarding retiring early is to have a solid, conservative retirement plan with the help of a competent financial planner. You certainly don't need $10 million to have a good retirement, even with paying full-price healthcare until Medicare kicks in. We definitely have not regretted our decision to retire when we did, and are taking full advantage of it by doing a ton of traveling now, as you never know when health issues will limit your travel.

Kurt


Absolutely one does not $10 million to have a "good" retirement (without pension) $5 million is good - but a pension helps
Having a spouse with a good job also helps with retirement assets
Vested stock options can be a very good thing
Inheriting assets from a generous family also helps with early retirement options.
A high level job in management contributes to retirement assets
Good health is good for retirement


.

(I'm a lucky guy :) )
 
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I'm not near retirement age but am recently facing challenges at work that made me think hard about how much longer I can stay at my job. I've since decided to work toward retiring at 55 using the Rule of 55 to withdraw from my current 401(k). I have that and smaller amounts in Roth and HSA. I don't know what the magic number is for retirement as I'm sure it's different for everyone's situation. I live in a high cost of living city, have no children, not married and have a small mortgage. I think my biggest challenge will be healthcare expenses until Medicare kicks in.

As for what I'll do in retirement? I like the idea of whatever I want and a lot of traveling. But I do recognize that my parents are getting older and I think retiring at 55 so that I could be available to help them would be a lot easier than trying to do that while working.
 
So looking at the posts: pensions seem to be the #1 method of people retiring early, followed by marrying well and being a supersaver from a young age. Sadly none of those things apply in my case but it has made me sit down and consider what is possible.

1. I have over $100,000 in two Health Savings Accounts. It wasn't my plan to use that for out of pocket health insurance there's probably enough to pay or mostly pay for 5 years of private health insurance.
2. Mr. H turns 65 in June and I was going to keep him on my health insurance if working to max out the HSA savings. But he can go onto Medicare instead. Someone tell me please how to start that process!
3. I will get pension contributions and unused vacation paid out (one time) to the tune of $75,000
4. I can do the locum thing 1/4 time or more as needed to bring in $100,000-$120,000/yr
5. House is paid for and we have the cash on hand for the next car, which we will likely need within the next 2-5 years
6. Mom is 85 and we should inherit our margin within the next decade
7. Alabama is a cheap place to live. Our property taxes for example on a house with 2 acres is $1200/yr.

This is a helpful to think through. It allows me to play a little bit of hardball with the University. We had a faculty member resign and the historical expectation is that the remaining two faculty split the departing faculty's responsibilities and each do 1.5 jobs for no additional compensation. So it would be deal-breaker exhausting and also interfere with my research. My vibe from the department head so far is that's what the plan is, but we meet next week. There's basically zero chance that I do 1.5 x more of the part of my job that is frustrating, which will result in me doing less of the part of my job that I like, and do it for the same salary. The university will be in a very bad situation if I leave, so my position is pretty strong actually.
 
I've been fortunate to have been able to make a decent financial plan in anticipation of my/our retirement . . . and made it to my FRA (66.5) in May 2024 to start collecting SS. We still haven't had to tap into any of our actual retirement (IRA) money . . . with my DH starting to collect his SS early at age 65 next month, we're looking good for a few more years (maybe until I have to start RMDs in 2031).

Unfortunately, the plans to travel haven't quite worked out for me for a couple of reasons. Health issues have continued to pop up . . . PLUS once my main travel partner (my sister) retired back in November, travel with her became strained to the point that she's bailed out of a big (year in planning) trip to Ireland . . . and the result was my having to pull the plug on a couple of other trips that were being planned for the rest of this year and early 2027. It also means no future cruising together, which I'm actually TOTALLY fine with. (That's a story for another day.)

My husband continues to be a real trooper about traveling, especially since he's a home body. In 2026 we have approximately 6 weeks of trips planned together. Ordinarily, he's only willing to do 2-4 weeks a year. So I'm not complaining, especially since a couple of them include long flights (Ireland in May/June and Alaska in September), something he dislikes A LOT.

So for me right now . . . dealing with my health issues is my first priority. It's a good thing I do enjoy solo travel and so far, nothing with my health is in the way of that. I do have my annual 2 week "road trip west to Yellowstone" camping trip plus 2 weeks of camp hosting in Western New York this summer. PLUS my solo cruise from Los Angeles to Tokyo in October.

While my dance card is pretty full for 2026, what it will look like deeper into retirement is anyone's guess. I do know I will need to fill time with rewarding activities and interests. There's so much I'd like to do, but some of my health issues do create limitations. (Like volunteering at our local animal shelter, due to my allergies & asthma.)
 
I hate my job. A lot. Sick of corporate America. Hoping to hang on for 5 more years until I turn 63.5. Then I will pay for Cobra for 18 mos & then move to Medicare. Health insurance is what handcuffs me to my job.

Every day I have anxiety about “is today the day I get laid off?”.

I feel like if that happens I may try to transition to something completely different (even with a giant pay cut) for the last few years of my working years vs remaining in the corporate hellscape I’m in now.

When I do retire I know I will need some structure to my days or I’ll lose my mind. Thinking volunteering / mentoring teens will be in the mix.
 
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