I hope your daughter has a speedy recovery.
They weaned her off the respirator as of noon today!!!!
Things are progressing with Jen. She is coming "down" from all the drugs they were giving her and it is not pretty. She has been so agitated. Well, violent and horrible actually. The first day as I mentioned previously she was a bit agitated and her roommate was able to keep her calm. She stayed with her the first night and although Jen was agitated and a bit cantankerous we thought it would probably pass in 24 hours or so. Whoa! So not true!
She seemed to be a bit better yesterday and asked for me so I stayed with her all day and last night. She was still agitated, still hallucinating, was arguing some, etc. but it seemed to be less so we were pleased. Then all of a sudden this morning at 5 am she became almost uncontrollable - fighting EVERYTHING! Trashing around the bed, trying to pull her feeding tube out, screaming at people, etc. She had ahold of my hand and all of a sudden her nails dug into my hand and she proceeded to launch off on a tirade of obscenity blaming me for everything. As a mother of course that hurts you but I keep that in perspective. I don't believe she means those things. Anyway, there she was saying the "F" word, injecting that into almost every sentence, and being a genuine pain in the butt. Finally after two hours of it, a shot of Percocet and another sedative that didn't work, I told the nurse they HAD to truly sedate her and I left. I stayed out for a few hours and during that time spoke to two of her doctors. Yesterday, they all seemed surprised that she was responding to coming down from the ventilator and drugs the way she was. They knew there would be some reaction, of course but not like how she was responding. This morning was horrible and I mean horrible. Her blood pressure at one point was 172/105, heart rate at 151, and she had not slept in 48 hours.
They proceeded to give her a different, stronger sedative that will help her rest until she works through all the different things going on with her body and told us to go home. She seemed to do better with the doctors and nurses than us. They felt she was acting better with them because they are "authority" figures in her eyes and because we are family she thinks it is ok to act the way she is. So, exhausted we came home.
The good news is they have removed both of her chest tubes and should be removing her feeding tube later today. There was some discussion of moving her out of ICU but I don't see that happening under the circumstances. We are going to go back in a little while after I shower and we get some dinner. They told us not to plan on staying the night with her and to just let her body go through this.
As I type this, I think of how far we have come and how grateful we are that she is still with us. I saw two mothers in ICU this week who weren't so lucky. One lost her daughter at 40 and another at 24, both mothers having to make the choice to take their daughters off life support. In between bouts of my own sorrow I managed to try and strengthen them. My heart just literally broke for them. What do you say to someone in that situation other than, "I am so sorry and am praying for you?"
Thank you again, my sweet friends on TUG. I could never have made it through this without you. We are very hopeful that Jen will make a full recovery and I know without your prayers it might not have happened.
Love,
Jan
Oh Jan I'm so happy for you. :whoopie:
ICU Psychosis can look scary but when she transfers to a regular room and gets back into a regular sleep pattern, this too shall pass. :zzz:
Don't fear, God is obviously parking a guardian angel at her side.
I've gone to visit many of our patients on the floors once they transfer out of the ICU and many of them don't remember a thing about the ICU stay. Those drugs can have an amnesic effect and also make you paranoid.
One day soon you'll be sitting around the dinner table telling Jen ICU stories and laughing about it. I know it doesn't feel like it now but hopefully sooner than later she'll be home again.
I'm glad you have your faith to sustain you.
I'll continue to pray for you both.
Please continue to keep us updated.
God bless you both.
Nurse number 3 here - it will get better - so glad she is improving physically....the rest will follow.I'm very glad she is progressing, but sorry that she and you are dealing with this complication. You are right to not take her outburst personally. Soon, God willing, your "old" daughter will be back with you. Continued prayers being sent your way. - Jacki
Ditto. Great news!I saw your sightings, so I figured Jen must be doing better.
Big to being out of ICU.