I still use that paper thing (check register) and I balance my checkbook monthly to see if I've got the same balance as the bank shows
I used to do what you describe, but now, in the 21st century, banks charge us for this. I got notice recently by a (rare) snail-mail contact from my (soon-to-be-former) bank that in the interest of security or modernization or some-such, they are closing my branch at Smith's and would charge me $3/mo if I write more than 5 paper checks. Baaaaah!
Jim