at first I couldnt figure out why you are so angry. But after reading the posts I guess the assumption is that its your house and your property.. In that case Id be angry too It is the level of total damage - everything and vicious - furniture reduced to rubble, paint poured into electronics (paint that they brought), every door, almost every dish smashed off the fireplace, and every picture broken, thrown outside or vanished.
My first question is: Why?...why did it happen? and why did they pick on you? Was it a random thing or were you the was the target. Nit that it makes any difference when it comes to punishment...but I am curious I have owned the house longer than almost everyone else in the community and I do not live there. I go up for a day here or there - but it is MY house and it is maintained.
I find it hard to imagine that its going to take $45000 to repair a 850 sq ft house. It might be cheaper to just tear it down and rebuild for that kind of money.. which brings me to my second question...what does your insurance company say. Do they come to the same numbers that you do? There first check OFFER to me was $21,000 for the physical house damage. They are waiting for the detail list of personal prosessions which includes all furniture and decor. Then, there will be the Replacement value check after I submit ALL the receipts to them.Again...not really important when it comes to punishment but it seems to me its the insurance company that will be spending the money to repair the damage and your stuff, and restitution is their concern, not yours....after all thats why you have been paying premiums all these years...so someone elas can take that risk I do not have the "can't live here rider - those expenses are one; pain and suffering is the other; look at the paperwork time required. I still work, have missed a vacation and will have to cut another one short.
To me there are two issues, restitution and punishment.both ought to be decided by the courts, not you or us on TUG. and if you were insured, you dont have to worry about fighting these kids, their parents or the courts...your insurance company ought to take care of that....To a degree, but not all.
This to me was a crime against property and community.. If I was the judge Id be looking at restitution, and community service.....at $10 an hour, and 4 kids It will take something like a year to raise the money. College may have to be postponed.