I have tried everything to work with my timeshare to get rid of it. They have done everything not to talk to me except to demand their maintenance fees. The TS is paid off, we never use it and we don't care about our credit. I'm hoping they will work with us for a deed in lieu or just do a foreclosure. So dumb that it has to come to this as I would be willing to bring it current if they would accept the deed back.
I'm so sorry to hear about how you're being treated. But, of course, you're not the only one within the universe of timeshare owners being treated exactly that way.
At first glance, it doesn't seem to make sense that timeshare HOAs ever treat people that way. After all, if they foreclose, all they'll get is a judgment for whatever you might not have paid in maintenance fees plus fees and interest, etc. But that's exactly what you're proposing to pay them in order for them to do a deed buyback! So logically why aren't they doing it?
If they'll hire an attorney, depending on the laws wherever they bring the foreclosure action, their judgment might include attorney's fees. But the attorney gets those, not the HOA.
The only thing I can think of is that they know they'll never be able to resell the timeshare to anyone else. Hence, they'll want to keep you on the books as long as they statutorily can in order to maximize the ultimate deficiency judgment for which they'll try to sue. And, in the meantime, perhaps rent out your timeshare.
I would consult with a lawyer in the timeshare's jurisdiction as to what you might reasonably expect. Perhaps he/she can guide you on an optimal course of action.
Also, I would consult Grammarhero's excellent review of each state's timeshare laws. In Florida, for example and as I understand it, you can stop paying your maintenance fees and the only recourse the timeshare would have is to foreclose. And assuming you DON'T object to the foreclosure, the timeshare entity cannot have a deficiency judgment entered against you. Which makes the timeshare entity very negotiable about deed buybacks. As a result, all but one of the four timeshares I own are Florida timeshares. I may have to make use of that law someday.