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My Husband Had A Massive Heart Attack

Iam so sorry this happened to Him but thankfully he is getting the care he needs. I will be praying for both of you and for his full recovery. I know it can happen because i did with a windowmaker heart attach 2.5 yrs ago and almost died twice at the hospital operating room during my cautherazation procedure putting in two stints. So with diet and Physical therapy and Gods help you can fully recover from this.
 
Wow Winniewoman, Scary time for you and your husband. Hopefully things will improve and you both can go home and recover. You are in my thoughts.
 
Wow that is a lot to be going through. Wishing you and your husband the best.

My husband is having the same prostate surgery on the 30th.
Best of luck to your husband. Seems like so many men have prostate trouble these days.
 
Best of luck to your husband. Seems like so many men have prostate trouble these days.
They're probably just better at detecting it. Prostate 'trouble' is just one of those things that most men will experience as we age. Most will die with it, rather than from it if they're fortunate enough to live long enough.
 
They're probably just better at detecting it. Prostate 'trouble' is just one of those things that most men will experience as we age. Most will die with it, rather than from it if they're fortunate enough to live long enough.
My husband thankfully did not have cancer. It was an enlarged prostate that prevented his bladder from emptying. Probably won’t see improvement from this surgery for many months and now with this heart problem and blood in his urine and all who knows?
 
Just read through this thread. Wow, such scary stuff all happening at once. Please know that you're both in my thoughts and prayers. As I was reading this, I couldn't help but think back to your Italy trip and how glad I was that you went and both enjoyed it so much. You're so right about life taking unexpected turns on a dime ~ too many of us know that firsthand. The best we can do is the best we can, roll with the punches and stay positive. Take care of yourself, don't give him anything else to worry about other than getting well. You will get through this. Hugs................
 
They're probably just better at detecting it. Prostate 'trouble' is just one of those things that most men will experience as we age. Most will die with it, rather than from it if they're fortunate enough to live long enough.
This was the thinking
It seems now that more men are suffering through treatment and some are succumbing to the disease. Perhaps because they are living a lot longer
 
From the American Cancer Society webpage:
Prostate cancer is the most common cancer in men in the US, other than skin cancer. It's also the second-leading cause of cancer death (after lung cancer). About 1 in 8 men will get prostate cancer in their lifetime.

So, get your screenings done. Early detection is a lifesaver. Effective screenings have only been around for ~30 years. Before that it was a roll of the dice. It's a great time to be alive and to stay alive. Let's get as many years out of our timeshares as possible!

The most common cause of death in men in the US however, is heart disease. Here is a list of Heart Attack and Stroke Symptoms from the American Heart Association just in case (like my husband) you are thinking that it couldn't possibly be a heart attack, so you stay at Jersey Mike's and pick up the sandwich order for the office. We can kind of laugh about it now, but at the time it wasn't that funny. His was a plaque rupture, so very unexpected.
 
On the good news side.....my mom is a small woman who didn't drink or smoke and who walked about seven miles a day for years. One day she didn't feel right when walking and drove herself to the hospital. At age 77 she was having a massive heart attack with one artery completely blocked and the others between 75-90%. She initially didn't want to have bypass surgery after getting the stents, but we guilted her into it using my kids (her grandsons) as the bait. She did have the surgery with a full recovery (or whatever that really means) and she turns 87 in two weeks. The only long term issues she has now is knee pain from walking too much. Your husband should have a lot of years ahead of him.
 
I can’t imagine the stress and frustration both you and your husband are experiencing. Please take some time for yourself. And keep us updated when you have the time and energy. Folks here have so much helpful information to offer!
 
From the American Cancer Society webpage:
Prostate cancer is the most common cancer in men in the US, other than skin cancer. It's also the second-leading cause of cancer death (after lung cancer). About 1 in 8 men will get prostate cancer in their lifetime.

So, get your screenings done. Early detection is a lifesaver. Effective screenings have only been around for ~30 years. Before that it was a roll of the dice. It's a great time to be alive and to stay alive. Let's get as many years out of our timeshares as possible!

The most common cause of death in men in the US however, is heart disease. Here is a list of Heart Attack and Stroke Symptoms from the American Heart Association just in case (like my husband) you are thinking that it couldn't possibly be a heart attack, so you stay at Jersey Mike's and pick up the sandwich order for the office. We can kind of laugh about it now, but at the time it wasn't that funny. His was a plaque rupture, so very unexpected.
It’s true. My husband’s heart attack was occurring over 5 days! Not something you would think of as a massive heart attack!
 
On the good news side.....my mom is a small woman who didn't drink or smoke and who walked about seven miles a day for years. One day she didn't feel right when walking and drove herself to the hospital. At age 77 she was having a massive heart attack with one artery completely blocked and the others between 75-90%. She initially didn't want to have bypass surgery after getting the stents, but we guilted her into it using my kids (her grandsons) as the bait. She did have the surgery with a full recovery (or whatever that really means) and she turns 87 in two weeks. The only long term issues she has now is knee pain from walking too much. Your husband should have a lot of years ahead of him.
I’m just concerned because they took bypass surgery off the table to do the additional stent in another artery instead. And I know there’s a better longevity factor with by-pass, but that choice was eliminated when he had continuing problems after the initial stents were placed.
 
I’m just concerned because they took bypass surgery off the table to do the additional stent in another artery instead. And I know there’s a better longevity factor with by-pass, but that choice was eliminated when he had continuing problems after the initial stents were placed.
Things change as the recovery continues. Getting stabilized is the most important thing right now. Hoping for the best for you and him.

BTW, my mom's surgery was about six weeks after the initial heart attack.
 
Thank you everyone for your well wishes. Husband is home as of today and I am keeping my fingers crossed. Tomorrow I am taking him for a much needed haircut and a new pair of slippers he desperately needs!

Tuggers are the best!
 
Thank you everyone for your well wishes. Husband is home as of today and I am keeping my fingers crossed. Tomorrow I am taking him for a much needed haircut and a new pair of slippers he desperately needs!

Tuggers are the best!

So happy to hear this. After having had two open heart surgeries I can say it’s no fun for anybody, especially the spouse!
 
The most common cause of death in men in the US however, is heart disease. Here is a list of Heart Attack and Stroke Symptoms from the American Heart Association just in case (like my husband) you are thinking that it couldn't possibly be a heart attack, so you stay at Jersey Mike's and pick up the sandwich order for the office. We can kind of laugh about it now, but at the time it wasn't that funny. His was a plaque rupture, so very unexpected.
The problem I'm stuck with is I've had at least 2 episodes that met the Heart Attack symptoms, once in my early 30s and once in 2025. They were bad enough for me to go to the ER. Both times it was determined after a bunch of tests that it was gas. Granted, I was younger the first time anyway, 44 now, but there's a history of heart attacks on my dad's side so I take it seriously. The problem is of course that at the very least I'm now inclined to take a gas-X or something before heading to the ER.

It kinda sucks that there are basically completely benign causes of the Heart Attack symptoms.
 
So happy to hear this. After having had two open heart surgeries I can say it’s no fun for anybody, especially the spouse!
Thank you. Amazing you had 2 surgeries and thankfully living life! God bless!
 
Glad to hear he is doing better!
 
The problem I'm stuck with is I've had at least 2 episodes that met the Heart Attack symptoms, once in my early 30s and once in 2025. They were bad enough for me to go to the ER. Both times it was determined after a bunch of tests that it was gas. Granted, I was younger the first time anyway, 44 now, but there's a history of heart attacks on my dad's side so I take it seriously. The problem is of course that at the very least I'm now inclined to take a gas-X or something before heading to the ER.

It kinda sucks that there are basically completely benign causes of the Heart Attack symptoms.
I definitely don’t want to hijack this thread so I will try and be brief. I had two chest pain episodes while still on active duty in the military. They did the troponin test and since it came back negative both times they attributed it to exercise and returned me to duty. I was in my 30’s! When I was 43 and retired from the military I ended up having a 5 way bypass after three confirmed heart attacks! My father had died from his second heart attack many years prior to this. I cannot emphasize how important it is for you to find a good cardiologist, now! A good cardiologist will be able to advise and monitor you before you actually need them.
 
I definitely don’t want to hijack this thread so I will try and be brief. I had two chest pain episodes while still on active duty in the military. They did the troponin test and since it came back negative both times they attributed it to exercise and returned me to duty. I was in my 30’s! When I was 43 and retired from the military I ended up having a 5 way bypass after three confirmed heart attacks! My father had died from his second heart attack many years prior to this. I cannot emphasize how important it is for you to find a good cardiologist, now! A good cardiologist will be able to advise and monitor you before you actually need them.
My husband's troponin test results were very low - so low that the hospitalist said that in the past they would have sent him home, but they had changed their guidelines because people were coming back into the hospital with heart attacks within a day or two. Luckily he was in the hospital when he had another event about an hour later. As scary as cancer was, the heart attack scared us even more.

I am glad to hear that you were successfully treated. And I agree, finding a good cardiologist is the key to successful treatment.
 
It's said that, if you don't have your health you don't have anything.
If your health is compromised, it overshadows everything else.
You could have a million-dollar net worth, and it don't mean a thing,
if you're not able to enjoy life.

IOW, do your best to stay healthy, my friends.
 
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