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My Husband Had A Massive Heart Attack

I am so sorry to hear this. Best wishes for a full recovery, and wishing you strength and care for yourself as you both navigate through this.
 
Holding you both in The Light. It will all be okay in the end; if it’s not okay, then it is not the end.

And remember to ask for help—it is a gift you give other people.


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God bless all the tuggers.

Amen

Bill
 
I am so sorry for you and your husband's stress, and medical problems. I pray that all will resolve.
 
How frightening for you both. I'm so sorry. My husband went in to have a stent put in his heart but they could not get it in. They planned to do a rotablation the following morning to open the vessel more to put in a stent. But that night in the hospital he began having lots of blood in his urine. The RN called his urologist at 3 in the morning who was at the hospital not long after that to perform a procedure to cauterize the vessels in the prostate. Hubby had had a TURP procedure on his prostate two years earlier. A TURP removes tissue and would be vulnerable to blood thinners and could open up bleeders. The head cardiologist at the practice then determined that because of the prostate bleeding and the difficulty they had putting a stent in, that his colleague should do nothing more. A good TUG friend (jme) knew a surgical nurse who worked with the top cardiac surgeon at the Medical University of SC (which is next door to the hospital where they attempted to put in the stent) and contacted her. She spoke to the surgeon (who did the first heart transplant is SC) who actually called my husband! He had looked at the images and report and said that he did not believe that he needed surgery at that time, and referred him to his colleague, a cardiologist at MUSC who took a look, got on a Zoom conference (this was during COVID) with us and told us that he never would have even attempted to put a stent in that area. That had he done so, he very well may have been trying to crack my husband's chest open to try save him during the procedure, much less what might have happened during a rotablation to open the vessel up for a stent! It's been five years; my husband has had no further procedures and is on new medications. He can sense when he had done too much and just sit and let it pass. It doesn't seem as if your husband's doctors were aware or concerned about a recent prostate procedure! If your husband had the TURP procedure that could have been the cause of the bleeding and a warning for future planned stent procedures. Please bring it up and get another opinion!
Wow! Really scary stuff! Thanks for this information!

My husband did not have TURP. He had RSP. He has had urologists coming in to monitor what’s going on.

Another thing someone mentioned to me is one of the stents already in his other artery maybe could have knicked the artery causing the problems he had this week. I did mention it to the nurse. But she said looking at his chart - bold treats, etc- she doubts that could be the case, but didn’t totally discount it.

The heart surgeon said that even if they had done the open heart surgery he might not have been able to bypass one of the arteries because of reasons ( he wouldn’t be able to tell until he got in there because he can’t see what he needs to from images) and it could have ended up being just one bypass. This is why they are only doing one stent in one artery this time. Would be too difficult to put a stent in that other one.

He claims the other artery is one many people have some blockage and never know it and live with it just fine.

I will say the cardiac team at this hospital has a very good reputation, as does his urologist, so I am trying to keep the faith. Being this was an emergency situation it was not something we could take our time with getting second and third opinions unfortunately.
 
I am so sorry to read this. Prayers your way for you both during this difficult time. Don't forget to take care of yourself also and take many deep breaths. Seriously.

Take notes when visiting doctors. With the stress and shock, half the time I had no clue what was said when leaving.

My late husband had a heart attack at 47 and had stents put in also. Three months later, quadruple bypass. I hope the medications work for him and no need for surgery. Being an hour away from doctors/hospitals really stinks also and adds to the stress when one has a ton of visits/follow-ups. Hang in there.
 
klcpa’s advice is spot on. One day at a time, one task at a time.
I pray for a complete recovery for your husband, and no more white hair for you. 🧑‍🦳😇
 
Wow! Really scary stuff! Thanks for this information!

My husband did not have TURP. He had RSP. He has had urologists coming in to monitor what’s going on.

Another thing someone mentioned to me is one of the stents already in his other artery maybe could have knicked the artery causing the problems he had this week. I did mention it to the nurse. But she said looking at his chart - bold treats, etc- she doubts that could be the case, but didn’t totally discount it.

The heart surgeon said that even if they had done the open heart surgery he might not have been able to bypass one of the arteries because of reasons ( he wouldn’t be able to tell until he got in there because he can’t see what he needs to from images) and it could have ended up being just one bypass. This is why they are only doing one stent in one artery this time. Would be too difficult to put a stent in that other one.

He claims the other artery is one many people have some blockage and never know it and live with it just fine.

I will say the cardiac team at this hospital has a very good reputation, as does his urologist, so I am trying to keep the faith. Being this was an emergency situation it was not something we could take our time with getting second and third opinions unfortunately.
Oh good! I hope that the next stent procedure goes well and the bleeding after the last was just a one time occurrence and urologists are monitoring if not. I realize how emergency situations render us having to rely on those who are available to help at the time and place. I'm glad that you are in a good place. Wishing you both the best!
 
Two weeks ago. He is 71. To say it was a shock is an understatement! And it occurred over several days so it isn't like it was one big attack, but smaller chest pains over the several days. I've got stories, but the bottom line is he had emergency stents (4) put into one artery, but needs more work. According to the doctors, there is a genetic factor with the arteries that makes that complicated.

Was going to have to have open heart surgery in about a month, but once he was home this past week with his numerous medications to keep him stable until then- well he wasn't stable and kept having episodes so I had to call paramedics this past Friday night for like the third time and he is back in the hospital. The docs are scratching the open heart surgery and opting for another stent in another artery since they feel he can't wait another month, but yesterday he started literally peeing blood- they think a blood vessel popped down there and he is on anti platelet meds which act like blood thinners- and now he has a catheter and still some blood clots but they are hoping it clears up and he can have the stent put in tomorrow.

On top of this- He just got through recovering from simple robotic prostate surgery for an enlarged prostate in November (no cancer, thank goodness)

AND he had THIS heart attack the DAY AFTER his first eye surgery for cataracts! So now he has one good eye and one bad eye and he can't have the other eye done until 6 months from now! Of course, he has to recover from the heart surgery, but he won't be able to drive- his vision right now is 20/50, but they will try to come up with something like different glasses or contact lenses (doc recommends these- but hubby doesn't like contact lenses) in the meantime.

Anyway- stress level has been through the roof for us. Been living in our capital city which is an hour each way from our home between daily hospital visits and doctor appointments. Plus several calls to have paramedics to our home and to on call doctors at night. Nightmare!

As we are all reminded- life can change on a dime.:(
I am really sorry you are going through this. That is an overwhelming amount to carry at once. It sounds like the doctors are adapting quickly and doing what they can to keep him stable, which matters a lot right now. Please remember to take care of yourself too, even in small ways, because this kind of stress wears you down fast. Wishing your husband steady progress and some calmer days ahead for both of you.
 
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
 
Wow, that's a lot (for both of you). Wishing the very best for your husband. Prayers!
 
The funny- not so funny- thing is the doctors said he was “ healthy”. He says to them- “How can I be healthy when I’ve had 3 surgeries in the past 2 months?! “ Lol!

Not to mention he had all those pre op tests so he could have his prostate and cataract surgeries. So much for those.

But what they mean is he has no co morbidities like diabetes. He doesn’t drink or smoke or take street drugs. He’s not frail. . . He is overweight, though and has been on high blood pressure meds forever. That was his only med before this. His cholesterol has been borderline, but triglycerides high.

He walks 10,000- 16,000 steps per day. Was always wearing a fit bit watch - even when he sleeps- which interestingly broke the week of his heart attack. A sign….. ?
Best wishes for a complete recovery for your husband. And best wishes to you.

The only other thing I wanted to say is that your husband and my mother both seem to have the same overall health profile with high blood pressure and high triglycerides. In my mother's case, my mother's doctor was very concerned about her high trigycerides (which had been "660" or so), specifically saying that high triglycerides had been determined to be a huge risk factor for heart attacks. Which was very interesting to me since, at the time, that was the first time they had even checked triglyceride levels when they did a blood analysis.

Her doctor put in a prescription for 600 mg generic Lopid (i.e., gemfibrozil) to battle the high triglycerides. I did a bit of research which indicated over-the-counter fish oil could also counter higher levels of triglycerides so I had my mother take one of those capsules per day.

Her next appointment 3 months later her triglycerides level was down to 70-something! The doctor was amazed at the quick response to the medication (or so she said). And, now, some amount of years later, my mother's triglyceride level remains rock bottom low even though she's now cutting her gemfibrozil pill in half (with her doctor's permission who knows full well how my mother hates taking any medication), although still taking her fish oil.

I don't know if the fish oil is indeed doing much of anything, although it certainly hasn't hurt. I guess the most important thing I wanted to say is that high triglycerides is thought by at least some doctors to be a significant risk factor for heart attacks. You may already know this, but I thought it couldn't hurt to make mention of it.
 
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