Oh, my goodnessā¦. Thank you all so much for taking the time. I have been traveling extensively and have had little to no time to be on-line the last few days. I quickly read thru your comments (wow, a lot to consider) and will take more time tomorrow to reread them. I will have some questions, Iām sure. First thing that popped in my head was the lizard/snake warning. Yikes, what if they find a way into my apartment? I know it sounds silly but as a single woman, what the heck would I do??? Also, please donāt laugh, but I have a phobia about frogs. Should I be rethinking this?|
I can very much relate.
On the lizard thingā¦. On one of my first trips to FL, I felt lucky that I noticed the lizard in my suitcase as I was packing to go. I would have freaked out, freaked out my dog, had it gone home with me. He was small, 3ā or so, but Iām from the north. I canāt handle big hairy spiders a fraction of the size, but the lizard didnāt seem to be a threat. Female, solo travel, I threw a shoe, he got out of my suitcase and I got the hell outa there.
Flash forward some decades, to about 5 years ago. I moved to NC, roughtly 40 mi N of Spartanburg. Lizards lizards lizards. Lucky Iām not afraid of them, but they startle me a lot, Out in my garden, no one around, something moves. I donāt like that. Made my peace with it, especially because a lizard adopted me. Seemed to live on my camper tire. Weird, but I named her Lizzy and we got along fine. Still in the 3-4ā range, never a Big Lizard. I have not found any lizard to be aggressive nor particularly scared of me. In fact, two skinks (pretty as lizards go) copulated on my front stoop. Oh no, that means more lizards.
Lots of snakes, too, which I really cannot handle. The day I saw the coil when I lifted a tarpā¦. It was weeks before I went near it again, armed with a very long bamboo pole to lift a corner of the tarp. He was gone, but I knew I had to leave that place. People ask what color he was. I donāt know, the blue tarp made him blue and I got the hell away fast, didnāt stick around to inspect. Yuck. They scare me. Iām so grateful that I sold that place relatively quickly. I lived on edge since that incident.
Yes, rethink this, if you canāt handle the creatures. I couldnāt handle snakes at all and So Many lizards, moved into the mountains. A bit too chilly for them. They are here, but very few, one garden snake and one orangish lizard in 2 years. I needed that peace of mind. Iām in my yard a lot, hands in dirt, would have noticed them.
My big issue with FL is humidity and gators. Gators scare the crap out of me. I couldnāt relax thinking one was always sneaking up on me. I know this from a subsequent trip to FL where rest area had warning signs.
What about FL draws you? Could you find same desires fulfilled/compromised somewhere with less snakes and lizards? Whenever I venture from Myrtle Beach I find a lot of cute towns that would cost less to live in and not so many tourists. Know zero about coastal GA but maybe you donāt need to go as far south as lizards and snakes become prevalent.
I donāt know much about frogs beyond Kermit. I wonāt laugh at your phobias, I have plenty of my own, But I do think frogs would want to get away from you. You could maybe startle them away from you. Lizards donāt give a crap, especially if they smell food.