I don't care much what other people think of timesharing. I know what works for me. I've learned that owning timeshares has allowed me to visit places I wouldn't normally go, and to go on vacation more often than I ever used to. Prior to timesharing, my vacations were haphazard, and many involved a lot of couch surfing at the homes of relatives and friends I'd drive to visit. (Not that there's anything wrong with that. I like visiting friends and family, but I've mostly seen where they live. I want to see something new.) With timeshares, my trips are planned well ahead of time - I know where I'm going and when, I can invite others to join me, I can budget for the trip, I can more easily afford it when it happens, and I know I will more greatly enjoy it. For me, it's been a great "preoccupation."
At my work, people often ask, "So when's the next trip to Hawaii?" Or "Where are you going this year?" I always smile, because they think of me as a vacationing maniac. I get no more vacation time than they do, but they know I use it to my advantage. When I tell them when and where we're going, they roll their eyes, and say, "Gee, I wish I could go on vacation like you do." I tell them they could, if they wanted to take the time to learn how to do it. They say timeshares are too expensive, and I tell them I get mine on eBay for a dollar. (Many raised eyebrows, and doubtful expressions.)
I explain that the ongoing costs are the same, and the real difference is what you pay to get it. A few have asked how that works, and I've tried to explain how to do it. But most people aren't seriously interested. I think they want it to just happen for them. Timesharing doesn't really work that way. In my experience, you get from it what you put into it. And that's a huge part of the enjoyment: Planning ahead is a large part of the fun for me.
Many years ago, one of the "Humor in Uniform" anecdotes in Reader's Digest was the story of a soldier who came home for the Holidays as a surprise visit. He didn't tell anyone he was coming. After the shock and surprise and the hugs, the Mother kept crying. The soldier asked why she wasn't happy to see him. The Mother said, "I'm very happy to see you. But by not telling me you were coming, you have denied me the pleasure of anticipating your arrival."
I always think of that, every time I book a timeshare for some time in the future. As the trip gets closer, and my plans and research start lining up, I am greatly anticipating the trip. It's exciting, and fun. Anticipation is a free thing that for me makes the experience even greater. It adds a value to the actual time away, and it increases my enjoyment of the entire experience. I like that a lot.
Dave