Lawlar,
I don't disagree with anything you said about bankruptcy. Especially the parenthetical part about the changes in the bankruptcy laws. Bankruptcy is just another financial tool, and should be used when its merited.
But, forgive me if I'm wrong, but you didn't tell the OP to file bankruptcy, and bankruptcy was never mentioned as an option for the OP. You told them, IIRC, to stop making payments on their mortgage, and the OP later said they would/could basically walk away from the mortgage. When was bankruptcy suggested as an option to the OP in this thread and why are you mentioning it now?
The issue for from the few facts that we have:
1. The OP can afford it, but made a bad investment that never generated positive cash flow. Not even from day 1 is what the OP said, even though they put 20% down. (OP doesn't think they are using OPM since they put 20% down, but that's another topic.)
2. The OP is not in danger of defaulting on their other debts and can afford this debt as well, however, it will put a crimp in their current lifestyle (which presumably would be a temporary setback because eventually real estate will recover).
3. This isn't the OPs primciple residence and OP is not in danger of being put out on the street. This is an investment property.
4. We don't know if OP signed a promissory note at the time the mortgage was issued. I don't know what the laws are in the state where the property is, or OPs home state, but for every mortgage I've gotten, I've had to sign a promissory note to get the mortgage.
Sure, if OP's liabilities are greater than OPs assets, perhaps bankruptcy is a reasonable option, but if they aren't I don't see why it's being mentioned here.
Just consider what would happen if everybody with an upside down mortgage just walked away from their investment. You think the economy is bad now? Just wait.
Like all other investments, real estate is cyclical. A lot of people seemed to have forgotten that.
-David