What will that do to my eBay rating? I'm afraid he'd retaliate and give me negative feedback.
I still have to wait until this week is finally approved by Marriott, we got the deed yesterday, but supposedly the week is in Marriott now. Once it is in my account I may take your advice. I'm afraid if I act precipitously they will find another reason to hold this up. For right now I'm stuck.
Come to think of it, I don't even know if he even submitted it to Marriott yet. How can I check??
This is the problem.. you're too scared of him the entire time. You paid for something, he didn't deliver, you have all sorts of retaliatory action you can place. At this point it's taking so long you could even go the criminal route (you didn't get what you paid for).
1) If your CC company is involved, call and file a chargeback under "claims and defenses" for the full amount. If the deal goes through later, then pay him then, minus fees/expenses/losses.
2) Go to
www.ic3.gov and start the process there for criminal action.
3) File a small claims suit for a few bucks that it costs. You can't sue in small claims for everything (just sue him for loss of use for the first year, and some other various losses/expenses you've incurred), but it's cheap, easy, and you can do it yourself and you'll show this guy you're dead serious.
4) If you don't like option 3, go all out and sue in a higher court for everything. But for this it will cost you more, and you should have an attorney at this point.
I have had enough bad deals in my life to know how to deal with them.. hit them with civil and criminal action and THEN let them settle with you so you can call off the dogs.