Maybe a court ordered "very" limited power of attorney. No pay, no ability to initiate financial transactions.
I actually have DURABLE POWER OF ATTORNEY. I have confirmed it is durable. I could rant on forever, starting with if it's a durable power of attorney, why is it only titled 'power of attorney' forcing me to do some homework. I had to make a few calls, and had someone with a law degree concur, but I am now confident it is durable. A few years ago, she was worried she had no one to take care of her estate when she passed. I told her I would, if she'd leave me enough money to take care of things (funeral expenses, really) that I'd take care of things. We went to the senior help center in her city and got free legal advice: Power of Attorney (durable), Healthcare Power of Attorney with Living Will, and a Will. Thank goodness!
One huge lesson here - make sure your banks and institutions, etc, have your DPOA and good emergency contacts. While I have DPOA, the banks didn't have it nor did they have contact info for anyone to contact when they suspected there was an issue. They contacted the police over a year ago but obviously the police did nothing (I had contacted the police as well (in October, 2024, and the bank had in November, 2024). I had no idea the amount of money involved, I thought it was $50 here and there, it is actually more like $100K-$200K over the past 2 years - I'll know more in the next few days. And honestly, it doesn't matter, it's gone.
Adult Protective Services, even knowing the amount of money involved, says she can give it away if she wants to. I filed a case with them, but have no expectations of help from them.
On a better note, I'm pretty confident I have stopped the bleeding. I'm afraid her life savings are gone. But with DPOA and her being cooperative with me, I believe I can protect her moving forward (at least her social security and pension, I think I can stop people from taking that). She added me to her bank, they know me now (and I will be contacted before she can withdraw cash). Her debit card is cancelled, no more ATM withdrawals. We closed another bank, and we are going to her financial advisor to add me as POA there. That part is silly - but I guess normal - banks like you to sign their own POA. I could push the issue, what I have is legal and in effect. But rather than fight that battle, we're going in and signing the form they want signed.
It's incredibly sad, APS nor the police helped. And I keep hearing how they see this all the time, people taking advantage of vulnerable, elderly, people.