Is there anyone trustworthy that specializes in HGVC resale and can assist with finding good properties?
Is there a podcast or breakdown of benefits of buying silver, gold, platinum points weeks?
I would start with thinking about what you want a timeshare for (use at that location, cheap last-minute deals, ability to use other places, etc.). Almost everyone likes what they have once they figure out how to make it work for them, but it’s much easier to start with what you think you want. Note: It will change, you'll want some flexibility, but you get the idea.
Then I would start with annual budget for travel. If it's $5,000 and you have 3 kids, forget about two weeks annually in Hawaii unless you are a planner, can go offseason and credit card/airlines point person. If it's $20,000, how many months do you want to travel? Be realistic, travel is not free. Timeshares are a commitment and liability not an asset.
There are plenty of low-cost sources for timeshares. You can get an idea of "lowest price possible," not what you'll pay just where the floor on prices is from rofr.net. In terms of where to buy, lower MFs are great, but some have higher selling prices, so o your math and think about what you want. TUG has the MF list for 2025 (might have to look at 2024 to see lowest MFs/point, but then selling price comes in).There is no PERFECT option, go for good enough. The goal is to take more trips to better places and spend more time with family (or not).
Most advice locations start with Scottland, then Vegas, but I feel like places like Hawaii offer more of a mental freedom when you think of them. I also like Marbrisa as some older deeds have access to GPX (maybe they all do, I don't know). I have found last minute week deals from GPX to be outstanding and easy to use. I probably won't sell it just because of that.
Once you have a handle on the above, the options should be couple of thousand dollars more upfront or cost you a couple hundred more per year in annual costs, unless you choose the “free route” which is a different strategy than I’m inclined to use. Personally, I'm inclined to buy weeks that have some value so if I want to get rid of worst case, I should be able to give away. YMMV.
Welcome to the Timeshare Game and I’m sorry you had the Retail Purchase Ordeal but know that many on TUG find the TS Product/Vacations well worth the time and effort of playing it!