That's what insurance and taxation is about. It's a part of living in a civilized society, and not like animals in 'survival of the fittest'. I have never fathered a child. Yet I have paid property taxes for nearly 50 years. The vast majority of which has gone to support schools I have never set foot in- nor has any progeny of mine benefited. Another healthy chunk supports a fire department. Thank goodness, I've never needed them. The number of times I have directly interacted with the police- again very few.
As to health insurance, I don't know if my old insurance covered pap smears, pregnancy, or birth control. I DO know it covered PSAs and digital prostate exams, though my wife couldn't care less. Medicare covers both.
So anyway, welcome to being a member of civilized society.
Jim