On one hand i agree, on another going in without any expectations is also fun. I'll admit it, I was not very interested in Italy. I did our logistics - flights, lodging, and transportation but I had very little interest in the details as it was on my husband's bucket list, not mine. He planned everything and it was amazing. It was like having 16 days of Christmas. Every day was something that I didn't even know that I wanted. I'm too much of a planner to do that again, but I should! It was really, really fun.