I am hardly a miser or hard hearted, but I will not give to Haiti relief for the same reason I do not give money to panhandlers. Haiti is a failed state, and until the Haitians pull themselves up by their bootstraps and put a government in place that's slightly better than "criminal," I think it is a waste of resources.
Scoop, many years ago I visited Haiti- -it was a port from a cruise. I didn't really see the depths of it, but I saw enough. I went to a make-shift shopping area where the poor people were selling their wares. I bought this and that - feeling so bad for these beautiful, yet desperate people. And then I bought enough and was ready to return to my cruise ship.
And there was a woman - so thin she fit in a doll's chair - and she didn't get up, but she held out a little doll and said, "5 dollars." I shook my head no. As I walked away I heard her plaintive cry, "One dollar. Pleaaaaaaaaaaaase." I ran off, horrified by the poverty, wanting to escape to a better place.
I will never forget not giving that woman that one dollar. It hurt my soul. I will give to the people in Haiti.
Scoop, I give to pandhandlers. Am I stupid? I know most will drink it. But maybe one or two will buy a sandwich. Maybe. I will not turn my heart into a cold, skeptical one that will freeze my own soul.
Think about it Scoop and others - Scoop certainly is right - there's corruption - maybe there's more there than other places, though god knows there's a huge amount right here in the good old USA (think rich corporatate executives). Don't analyze. Just give. One dollar. Pleaaaaaaaaaaase.