I am wondering if this is limited to the specific demographic that I serve.
Before I get off on my rant, I'll just say that I use Quicken, and if I'm paying bills in front of my computer, I don't use my checkbook register. If I'm out at the beauty shop, I jot down the # & amount, and then enter it in Quicken. I don't write many checks for stuff like that, so it works for me. And most of my bills are auto pay, so a box of checks lasts me an eternity.
Now, for my rant:
When I retire, I'd love to write a book about people & their finances. I inherited promissory notes from my father, who flipped houses, sold them to the people and carried the note. My dad was "the bank".
I was getting 3 - 4 bounced checks every single month and had to make most of them start paying me in money orders. I began to ask them questions, and realized none of them EVER have any idea what their balance is. "Oh, it's the 31st, my house payment is 22 days late, I'll just write her a check and hope it clears."
It has lots to do with the demographic, I think. We both still work, have a decent income, and have wiggle room in our checking account. These people need every single penny, and fritter a minimum of $100 each month in bank fees, penalties, overdraft charges, etc.
I am tired of lecturing them. They're adults, and the learned how to manage (or not) money from their parents, and are unwilling to go to the trouble of writing things down to avoid these stupid charges. I'll bet in my whole 55 years I've maybe paid $20 in late fees or penalties. I just refuse. It's an easy thing to avoid if you have a modicum of discipline. Their lives are chaos, and keeping a checkbook register is just not something they are willing to make time for.
The injustice is unbelievable. I get free airline tickets and/or cash from my credit card company because of all the points I rack up annually. I don't pay my credit card company a dime, ever. They pay ridiculous interest rates and late fees and get nothing from their credit card companies except nasty phone calls and letters.
Dave Ramsey would die if I told him their stories. Drives me up a tree!
Rant over.