I've always managed my own money. I could probably use some help with planning at this stage, but I'm leery. A number of years ago I dragged my boyfriend (now husband) to an adult education seminar on managing money. There were 4 instructors (all investment advisers for the same company)and they made some serious errors on basic things. Then I went with my new DH to listen to his adviser in the yearly meeting. I disagreed heartily with what I was hearing. I also asked some pointed questions and the person clearly was less knowledgeable than I.
I also listen to my in-laws comments on what their adviser has them doing and I think the adviser is out to enrich himself but the in-laws think he's great so I don't stick in my two cents.
My SIL took my mother, unbeknownst to the rest of the family, to a lawyer for a will. This guy, with a CPA, set her up in an irrevocable trust which cost her thousands, and her estate is so small, it's truly sinful what he did.
I've been reading Kiplinger's for years and I think it's a great source of information for the general population. I have recommended it to many other people over the years.
Now that I have amassed a good amount of money for retirement, and I'm getting closer to that stage in my life, I could probably use some guidance. But when I've seen all these creeps in action over the years, I just do not trust them.
"Creeps" exist in every type of occupation unfortunately. Finding someone to trust with your money runs a close second to finding someone to trust with your life, like a doctor. If I loan someone a car and they steal it, well I can always get another car. Life savings and your life? Well, that's a different animal all together.
I wouldn't say our first guy was a "creep", but he was surely the self serving type. When we asked him, "can we buy mutual funds?" He steered us away from them every time the subject came up. We finally learned the answer, it wasn't because they were a bad investment, it was because his company did not sell such a product. He pushed us to take out a line of credit on our paid for house years ago. "Why tie up your cash when you can use it to invest?" Why I didn't get this the first time is beyond me. We got the LOC, only to watch the interest quickly rise from 4% to what, 8% before we paid it off?? When we sat in our annual meeting a few years back, always in February since we lived in Florida, and always during the Gasparilla festival (can you say, drunkfest?) he told us our ROI was 13%. He conveniently lumped a well performing 4th quarter previous year with a rocky current year, to pump up the ROI. When I chimed in that we DIDN'T make 13% on the first XXXXX.XX on our money because we were paying 8% back to Poorlyrun Inc in the name of interest on our LOC, he looked at me like I had two heads. (perhaps it was because he was painfully hung over that he couldn't make the connection).
It is very difficult to swallow when you learn that your investment company recorded record profits, when you look at your own portfolio and see that, after fees, commissions, etc, you might have been better off buying cd's. It is also hard to swallow when you learn that there are funds managers taking your hard earned money and investing it in 1000 shares of company Z, (at $.01 per share!) ( Poorlyrun Inc has since been sucked up, by Evenmorepoorlyrun Inc. )
In the meantime, the woman who handles our investments now did everything in her power (stop losses, etc), to help lessen the blow of the last stock market downfall. Did we lose money? Of course we did. But when looking back at how we fared, we did alright. Certainly less than the national average. Since I DON'T have a finance degree and she does, it is worth what she charges. I probably should not share where she works, but I will say that they have their name on a stadium in a Tampa.
