I went with Charter Oak State College, out of Connecticut.
There are some very basic questions you need to answer before looking for a good program:
1 - Do you want to consolidate credit you have already earned?
2 - Do you want to take classes online, or in a classroom?
If you already have many credits, you are looking for degree completion. This means you want a school that will accept the courses you have already taken, and if you are within 20 or so credits of a degree, you also want a school without a residency requirement. Some places require at least 30 credits be from them, some the LAST 30 credits.
The "Big 3" degree completion schools are
Charter Oak,
Thomas Edison, and
Excelsior which used to be called Regents University. All 3 of these accept most transfer credits, as long as they come from accredited schools. Each has its benefits and pitfalls, but they all allow you to complete a degree without taking ANY of their courses. You have options to take standard classroom courses from almost anywhere, online courses, correspondence courses, credit by exam, and even portfolio credits (where you justify credits based on life or work experience). Note that portfolio credits sound easy, but they are not. You have to find an equivalent course, and show that you have learned the equivalent material through your experience.
A good site to start your research is
degreeinfo.com. Their forums are to distance learning what our here are to timeshare. There are many questionable schools, but there are also many good ones. I completed my degree in december, through a combination of regular courses (the bulk of my degree), online courses, combination online/correspondence courses, and exams. It is not something I would recommend for a young inexperienced student. Online and correspondence courses require discipline, as you don't have the teacher looking over your shoulder every week. For those above who found their classmates lacking, I found the same of both some online classmates and those taking regular classes - those who were returning to college, and serious about their degrees (and paying their own way, more often), were the ones that put all they could into their classes.
I personally was turned of by Phoenix because of both their cost and their structure. With "the big 3" you can get most of your coursework done, and then commit to the school, particularly if you've gotten to the point where you don't need someone else telling you what courses you should take.