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When one makes a commitment to another, via contract or promise, one has a moral, and legal obligation to uphold their end of the bargain. Religion has nothing to do with this issue, so please let's not bring prayer into this.
Defaulting does NOT release you from your commitment. Try telling the court that when your creditor sues you for your back maint fees. Bankruptcy CAN let you walk away. The difference is that you must present your financial situation to the court and THE COURT will decide the outcome.
Defaulting is never moral. Screwing other people because you are angry, upset, frightened, or any other rationalization is cowardly. At least have the huevos to stand up and say 'I didn't want it any more, so I stopped paying. I don't know you and don't care that you had to pick up my slack'.
When you cause harm (financial or otherwise) to others simply to improve your own situation, the words from my previous post apply to you. When you don't keep your word (contract) you are not trustworthy. Frankly, I don't see how anyone could think otherwise, no matter where they happen to reside.
And the definition of default (from dictionary.com) as it pertains to legal matters:
de·fault /dɪˈfɔlt/ [dih-fawlt] –noun
[...] 3. Law . failure to perform an act or obligation legally required, specially to appear in court or to plead at a time assigned.
Note that it is a FAILURE to follow the law, NOT a legal remedy.
Defaulting does NOT release you from your commitment. Try telling the court that when your creditor sues you for your back maint fees. Bankruptcy CAN let you walk away. The difference is that you must present your financial situation to the court and THE COURT will decide the outcome.
Defaulting is never moral. Screwing other people because you are angry, upset, frightened, or any other rationalization is cowardly. At least have the huevos to stand up and say 'I didn't want it any more, so I stopped paying. I don't know you and don't care that you had to pick up my slack'.
When you cause harm (financial or otherwise) to others simply to improve your own situation, the words from my previous post apply to you. When you don't keep your word (contract) you are not trustworthy. Frankly, I don't see how anyone could think otherwise, no matter where they happen to reside.
And the definition of default (from dictionary.com) as it pertains to legal matters:
de·fault /dɪˈfɔlt/ [dih-fawlt] –noun
[...] 3. Law . failure to perform an act or obligation legally required, specially to appear in court or to plead at a time assigned.
Note that it is a FAILURE to follow the law, NOT a legal remedy.