I feel you, OP. This happens to me every single time I go to Wyndham Glacier Canyon. It's bad at pretty much every Wyndham, but Glacier Canyon is particularly egregious.
A few stays ago, the woman at the parking pass desk introduced herself as Harmony. She was just as sweet as pie, until she could tell that I wasn't going to do the update. Then she tossed the parking pass at me, and gave me a super-snippy, "Have a nice day!" And I was as nice and polite to her as possible. I just said, "No thank you. I'm not interested." So much for harmony.