T_R_Oglodyte
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Southwest changing rules for plus-size passengers: What to know
There is to be a significant change to a popular policy that allowed larger travelers to book two seats for the price of one.

Okay, let's explain it to you. If a kid sits on a lap they don't take up a seat. If they are over 2 and have their own seat, you pay for it. I never felt comfortable with my kids as lap kids on a plane so always brought their car seats and bought them a seat.A good and fair change. Now charge two year olds less than plus sized passengers. Never understood that before 2 is free on a lap and after two charge the same. But a bag a pound over will be charged as a heavy bag.
Then the airlines want to charge me extra to sit beside my own kids no matter where on the airplane.
I would never accept being uncomfortable on a plane (more than normal). I would speak to the flight attendant right away.
A 30 pound kid uses less fuel than a plus sized person. The airline bean counters understand that when it goes the other way and charge over heavy baggage etc.Okay, let's explain it to you. If a kid sits on a lap they don't take up a seat. If they are over 2 and have their own seat, you pay for it. I never felt comfortable with my kids as lap kids on a plane so always brought their car seats and bought them a seat.
And you keep saying you have to pay extra to sit by your own kids. I don't know what airlines you fly, but when I've flown with my kids and I make the reservation, I choose seats where we are all together. We pay extra for ALL of us if we choose the extra room seats or first class.
So this was one time when you couldn't sit together because you booked at the last minute (for an understandable reason)? And I know you've posted about this before and I think I've discussed with you about this before.A 30 pound kid uses less fuel than a plus sized person. The airline bean counters understand that when it goes the other way and charge over heavy baggage etc.
Thankfully I mostly fly Copa Airlines so I get economy plus included and can still choose seats for free for my group.
It will be 6 years ago tomorrow I had to fly home for my grandmas funeral and brought my two sons. We had tickets booked there for a few days later for vacation/visit. Had to fly Delta and booking last minute the back of the plane was already filled for families. No 3 seats together as everyone is trying book window and aisle and leave middle empty or book middle in a vacant row to not pay for seat selection. I only wanted to have 3 seats together. Did not matter where on the plane. Then missed our connection because of immigration. On the way back changed our flight to a few days earlier to avoid a hurricane and same issue. 6 years olds should not be sitting beside strangers for their safety as well as the enjoyment of everyone else. I posted about it in the travel section.
We flew to Nassau with a stopover in Miami there and back as we wanted to do shopping/stuff in Miami after for a few days. But it is a real thing that airlines are indifferent to and paying customers feel entitled to a seat they had to pay to choose which I understand. But the airlines computer matrix should find a way to keep a parent traveling with small kids together at no additional cost.So this was one time when you couldn't sit together because you booked at the last minute (for an understandable reason)? And I know you've posted about this before and I think I've discussed with you about this before.
You can edit your post by clicking on the "Edit" button. It's below your signature next to "Report".Very courteous and humble man
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So are you saying that while you are willing to pay for a seat, if it's an upgrade, your kids should get their seat upgrades free so they can sit with you? You could all fly basic, but then I guess you get no seat assignment.We flew to Nassau with a stopover in Miami there and back as we wanted to do shopping/stuff in Miami after for a few days. But it is a real thing that airlines are indifferent to and paying customers feel entitled to a seat they had to pay to choose which I understand. But the airlines computer matrix should find a way to keep a parent traveling with small kids together at no additional cost.
Thank youYou can edit your post by clicking on the "Edit" button. It's below your signature next to "Report".
I just want to sit together no matter where. That should be a basic concept for airlines to understand. If I pay for an upgraded seatf I would expect to pay for them as well.So are you saying that while you are willing to pay for a seat, if it's an upgrade, your kids should get their seat upgrades free so they can sit with you? You could all fly basic, but then I guess you get no seat assignment.
So are you saying that while you are willing to pay for a seat, if it's an upgrade, your kids should get their seat upgrades free so they can sit with you? You could all fly basic, but then I guess you get no seat assignment.
There's a very simple solution here. @am1 should simply not fly with airlines that don't meet her preferences for seating together. Those airlines will pay the penalty of lost business for not accommodating @am1 and others like here, whereas airlines that do meet those preferences will see their business boom. Soon, airlines will either meet adapt to those standards or go out of business. Problem solved without needing to whine about how airlines treat passengers.I just want to sit together no matter where. That should be a basic concept for airlines to understand. If I pay for an upgraded seatf I would expect to pay for them as well.
Thankfully Copa Airlines allows me free upgraded seats for all as a lowly silver member from a branded credit card. First class upgrades only on paid fares but prefer to use miles.
Unless you were one of the first to board and have someone of "size" sit next to you later on. Unless you intend on getting up and changing seats at that point.This is one of the many reasons I will miss the SWA opening seating policy!! It is much easier to avoid sitting with someone that is huge when you can see them and pick a seat based on your seatmates.
Unless you were one of the first to board and have someone of "size" sit next to you later on. Unless you intend on getting up and changing seats at that point.
By the way, I'm not in favor of SW's new policies and didn't mind the open seating.
Way off base as airlines are given special preference in flying routes and such. I will limit flying with said airlines but if there are no other options or it simply is the best option I will fly with them and push for sitting today with toddler aged daughter. Airlines are not a supermarket or clothing store where one can simply avoid one.There's a very simple solution here. @am1 should simply not fly with airlines that don't meet her preferences for seating together. Those airlines will pay the penalty of lost business for not accommodating @am1 and others like here, whereas airlines that do meet those preferences will see their business boom. Soon, airlines will either meet adapt to those standards or go out of business. Problem solved without needing to whine about how airlines treat passengers.
I see a rant coming from @am1 about [his] kids on planes. We have been around this block before ad nauseam. Now looking for the ignore button for this otherwise useful thread.Okay, let's explain it to you. If a kid sits on a lap they don't take up a seat. If they are over 2 and have their own seat, you pay for it. I never felt comfortable with my kids as lap kids on a plane so always brought their car seats and bought them a seat.
And you keep saying you have to pay extra to sit by your own kids. I don't know what airlines you fly, but when I've flown with my kids and I make the reservation, I choose seats where we are all together. We pay extra for ALL of us if we choose the extra room seats or first class.