Easyrider, it is more of an attitude than a matter of control. What sort of attitude? A viewpoint of substituting capital for cash flow (income). For example, buying and owning a modest car (and paying cash up front) over leasing a nicer one, and keeping the one you buy for a long as possible, My car is a Hundai Elantra, almost 13 years old, costing 23K up front. So far, it has cost me $150 a month, and the price keeps dropping as my car gets older.
With that attitude in life, my cash flow needs have dropped over the years. Paid for house? No tax deduction, but no need for the income (taxed) to be earned for the same standard of living. And on and on. Miser? No, just a careful planner. (another example: A couple of years ago, I upgraded my computers with 5 year old, dirt cheap, used computers. Quality HP corporate used computers. Why so cheap? They couldn't be upgraded to Windows 11. Shrug. I run Linux for my home computers (with virtual XP and Windows 7 machines under Linux). Solid computers for less than $100 each, plus another $200 to upgrade to big SSDs, put in new batteries, and bump up the memory. I expect to run them for another 10 years. Equivalent Win 11 machines would cost over $1,000 each new.)
The tax system can't tax you on income you never earned, yet I don't feel i have a lesser standard of living.
I guess this sums up my worldview.
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