Again, if you haven't been to VA Beach; try something new and unexplored
I love the OBX (about a 2 hr drive), but over the last few year, I'm loving VA Beach more and more (40 min drive). Nice beach, nice boardwalk, nice restaurants. You can walk places, bike places or take the trolley that cruises the "strip".
If you like art shows (with jewelry and crafts thrown in), sand volley ball, music, etc.; I recommend the Boardwalk Art Show. It starts on Thursday and runs through Sunday. I try to go every year. My brother-in-law and his girlfriend were down from NY for that weekend this past June to celebrate my sons' graduations. They loved it. There's three main music stages along the boardwalk. The art show runs for about 15 blocks. People watching from your oceanfront balcony or sitting along the boardwalk is quite enjoyable. The beach is nice and wide, though packed in some areas more than others. Sand volley ball runs several blocks and is fun to watch also.
Below are links to oceanfront events and the art show. The 2012 schedule is still up, but usually the events take place at the same time each year. The Boardwalk Art Show is June 13-16, 2013.
http://www.beachstreetusa.com/events
http://www.virginiamoca.org/outdoor-art-shows/boardwalk-art-show
I like all the VA Beach resorts in RCI, except the Atrium. Only because it is two blocks off the oceanfront and is located on the main road (4 lanes) into the oceanfront area. However, with so much to do, one doesn't stay in the unit that much. Keep in mind, except for The Colony, the units are small in Virginia Beach. Ocean Key Resort is across the street, but I recommend it. I am an owner there and they completely renovated the resort, as well as all units. The reviews are terrific on TripAdvisor. I've been tracking it since the renovations were done. It was ranked #3 of 120 VA Beach hotels. It is currently ranked #1 of 120 VA Beach hotels. I stayed at Barclay Towers for the first time this past June and enjoyed my stay. Ocean Sands also had a complete renovation a couple of years ago. Only drawback is the resort does not have any balconies. Ocean Key (mentioned previously) only has a few units with balconies. My favorite RCI resort is Four Sails where I am also an owner. It is a basic oceanfront resort in a fantastic location with beautiful views from the balconies (all units). The staff is incredible and the amenities decent. There is an onsite restaurant and there is complimentary use of bikes for riding along the boardwalk.
I think you should give VA Beach a try!