DeniseM,
I'm too am curious, one thing which could be the explanation is as I mentioned several times I was making my posts from my blackberry, I purchased a SIM card in Mexico which gave me local calling abilities and a Mexican number too. When you were so preoccupied in finding out my exact location [which I still am trying to understand, presumeably you were already knew the mexican server which I was logged on to, so you were trying to trick me into a lie......???????] perhaps TUG should think about what this says about themselves. I then answered you from my desktop PC and have now had my SIM card switched back on my Blackberry.
I have been surprised at the hectoring tone of some of the posts, after the initially supportive comments, and I wanted other opinions. I didn't like these demands about where I am and when I am home and all. It is actually quite unsettling, and personally I was not really happy with starting to give such personal information. My friends here are saying I should be very careful of information I give out about myself over the internet.
Apart from that I want to say this - I asked a simple questions at the start, because I was surprised everything on here seemed so negative, and very soon I was assured by the moderators that I had been scammed and should rescind. To me, making an "allegation" in this context is a complaint, and I just said what I had experienced, I didn't start out to complain or get a refund. I didn't post any sort of complaint. It was my account which led to the allegations by others that I had been scammed.
My first post was about looking for cheerful news. Then I find myself being lectured by the moderators on the meaning of words, being urged to give the resorts a chance, and getting "hunted down" over my whereabouts like I did done something wrong. My friends are saying it's possible that people involved in the group are insiders who are helping the scammers. I really don't know what to believe now.
I don't like the inference that it's 50/50 I am a liar. Surely it goes without saying that readers can't generally verify the contents of posts. I don't want to term my account "unproven allegations" - I know that they are true. I started out feeling really welcomed and supported here , but now I am wondering who to trust. When you are monitoring my whereabouts, it really feels like I am being mistrusted.
I am grafeful for the time spent by various people giving me information, but I did not expect a forum to be so intense like this. I guess it's another learning curve for me, but I want to try to concentrate on other stuff for a while. I am truly sorry if I have upset anyone. My next trip to Mexico is a few months away yet!
Dolly