If we keep paying we will end up paying 44k not including yearly membership.
That's way too much for something we don't use or plan on using.
Do you regularly purchase stuff that you "don't use or plan on using"? How much expenditure is the right amount? I have some sympathy for people who go to timeshare presentations 'for the tickets- or discounts- or some attraction" while they are on vacation, knowing full well that they are going to have to tell some salesweasel. "NO!" at some point. If you're too polite to do this, THEN shove the signed contract in a drawer until after the rescission period has passed, I'm sorry. You bear some responsibility for the outcome.
Here on TUG, we've advocated using timeshares for great family vacations. And we advocate purchasing from other owners instead of from developers. We believe that there is enough money in MFs to maintain and even expand and improve existing properties while under control of HOAs, not developers' boards.
There are consumer protection laws in every state designed to prevent developers from taking unfair advantage of careless 'buyers'. But at some point the buyer has to take some responsibility for their own actions. The very nature of timeshares, with the lack of open resale market dictates the high commissions for sales forces of developers. We've advocated rescission and buying resale.
We're really wish you well, but there is nothing that TUG can do at this point to ameliorate the damage you've done to yourselves. There remains the bankruptcy and foreclosure laws designed to help people who genuinely get in over their heads to get a second chance.
Good Luck. We wish you well.
Jim