I suspect many folks like myself must have the ideal sleeping pillow for their perfect night's sleep. I am using the same pillow for over 20 years but it is falling apart, has stains, etc. The company that made this pillow is no longer around. I've tried probably a dozen different pillows recently and I still continue to use my original one. I prefer a soft, relatively flat pillow, and yet others probably prefer to keep their heads elevated with either a bigger or firmer one. My question is: what is your preferred name brand of pillow and is it flat and soft or on the larger, firmer side?