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Cancelling vacations not due to flu...:(

pammex

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HI, This for sure is one of the hardest posts I have ever done. I am posting this as I feel I owe it to many who I have been helping and have not responded to, as well as to share with all what I find out happens when you have to cancel vacations etc. Also to let all who have been so helpful to me....know why I have not responded. I am hopeful that TUG will see that this does indeed have travel related ramifications for all...as you will see below this can and already has happened to oh so many families.:bawl:

I need to share with you all that this past monday we cancelled our long wished for vacation to Acapulco and Ixtapa.....NO NOT because of the flu!!!!! I have unfortunately been diagnosed with breast cancer, and will be undergoing a bilateral mastectomy this coming friday, am already taking oral chemo and will be on chemo after surgery. Much to my chagrin, I have found so, so many people on this site, and others, who have had to do similar due to health issues and oh so many who I did not know, right here these sites that have already been on this not wanted vacation to the World of Cancer, instead of their planned vacation. ( Please do your breast exams and mammographies....I did and we are hopeful this is early stage....)

I want to let you all know, that obviously I will not be posting for, well I do not know really as yet...but be assurred I will be back....some of you may know me as bezerk on some other sites.

I would like at this time to ask all of you to please think of me and my family and all the families that have been thru or will go thru this or similar circumstances. Pray for them all. Be kind when posting.....Pray for all the poor people of Mexico who due to the flu or any other such thing, will not ever be able to afford what many of us have experienced or to seek health care when needed. Right now pray for the world....but do not let fear cripple you or hamper your life!

When I am recovered I will let you all know, ( maybe before if possible) what occurred finacially with my vacation plans. And also if I will be able to go as scheduled in July to one of my favorite places Puerto Vallarta Area!!! My trip to Ixtapa to Pacifica where I am a member has put my vacation and all monies on credit until I am able to travel. My RCI exchange to Acapulco, RCI, will refund my exchange fees and such and also send a 6 month week certificate to use. Not sure if I will be traveling by then, but will deal with that later. My dear hubby handled all this and he has no clue how all this timeshareing works, but he is learning quick LOL.

It would mean a lot to me and my family, if on Friday, anyone who is able, can do a toast ( I happen to like Palomas and Margaritas, but beer is okay too!)( ah heck any alcohol would be fine, since I cannot have any now)for a quick return to my vacations and to my time spent on TUG! I will surely miss my time on this site. Saludos!!

My husband flew in on weds. on an emergency flight to Guadalajara.....so I have my big shoulders to lean on and we are in no fear of the flu.....he did wear a mask on plane as I advised.......

My friends on here, I will miss you all, but just for a time and I WILL be back!!!! Stay healthy, happy and post in peace.....life is oh so very short and with so many twists......I am praying not only for my family but for all the world in this trying time........

Hasta Pronto and good health and many Happy Vacations to All!!!

The BANNER, unfortunately did not make it to Mexico with hubby under the circumstances but we have made arrangements for a friend in states to get it from our home there and forward it on to next in line. I know there was an issue with timing and one poster who PM'd me, but did not know what was going to occur then, so maybe that poster can send me address via PM asap as the last chance I will have to check for adress will be tomorrow. I will also send Brian a PM.....if I do not get the address before hospital then before hubby returns to states which we, well he hopes will be before end of May....he will get it out to whomever asap. He has to return of course for work and money...unfortunatley...but I have a good support system in Mexico so I will be okay...

My friends....please keep the banner moving for me.....when I am back and able to use computer the pics will help to life my spirits to see the Banner traveling.....Vaya con Dios ( Go with God)!!!

Please have happy vacations and PLEASE do your breast checks and mammograms etc.....I was vigilant and it may be my life saving grace!!! No offense but check those breasts now and tell all mothers, wives, daughters, grandmothers, friends, etc.....CHECK NOW!!!! Almost every other person I speak to has been affected by this Cancer World......heavy sigh......help me to get the word out my friends.....check, check and double check!!!!

I'll miss you all for awhile, but I plan to take that Banner traveling again!!! Just pray now!!! :hi:
 

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We will patiently wait for an update, but.....

YOU take good care of YOU---and let us TUGgers send some prayers your way.

God bless you,
Pat
 

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Pam, so sorry to hear this news. I'm praying for a successful surgery for you and a complete and quick recovery. Please keep in touch when you can.
 

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OMG! I wondered where you've been. Silly me, thinking it was a beach somewhere!

Take good care of you. You will be in all our thoughts. I'll hoist one for you on Friday-- and Saturday-- and---

Vaya con Dios, Mi Amiga, even though we haven't met.

Jim Ricks
 
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Will keep you in our prayers

We never know what plans life has for us. Luckily, you did get your breast exam and this helped you get the medical care you need. I will keep you in our prayers. Que Dios te cuide y te bendiga siempre! La fe siempre es la mas fuerte..cuidate mucho.
 

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You will be in my prayers for a speedy recovery and many more happy vacations. Take care special Lady.
 

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All the best for Friday ... I'll be thinking of you that day for sure. I'm sure you'll be back on TUG in no time. :)

Brian
 

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You got it Pam. Our Friday toast will be for you.
 

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You are facing a winding road ahead, but I can tell you are a courageous and strong voyager.

I echo the advice you have given to all, and I know you will surmount this and we look forward to hearing from you again. My very best wishes to you. I will toast you when we have a glass of wine on Friday.
 

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Thank you to all......I sure am gonna miss TUG...No beach destination this time around....but later.....

Take care of yourselves and until soon........Pam Buenas Noches...
 

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All the best to you.

As you are aware we Tuggers are a pretty supportive best, so I am sure you are receiving lots of prayers and good thoughts and best wishes from all around the US and the world.:)

Blessings.
 

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terrible news, I am very sorry to read this :(
 

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You will be in my prayers.

I personally know several women who are breast cancer survivors. Most have passed the five year mark and consider themselves "cured". Many highly effective drugs and treatments have been developed over the past ten years. I'm sure a feisty, sensitive, upbeat lady like you will overcome this in no time!

During the difficult days, just close your eyes and picture yourself on a beautiful beach.
 

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My prayers are with you. You WILL beat this and will be writing many wonderful reviews for us for many years to come!
 

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My prayers are with you too Pam as a fellow Tugger. Rest assured that you will be back in the place you love to visit. I will be thinking of you Friday.
 

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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We will be thinking about you.
 

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Pam

I hope and pray that everything will go well for you. Take care.

Joan
10 year BC survivor

Good BC site www.breastcancer.org
 

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Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. We have several close friends who had breast cancer and they are all triumphant survivors. Keep positive, and have a speedy recovery!

Dori
 

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Pam,

I am sorry to hear this. I also know right now a few women going through the same thing. (Also my neighbor and very close friend colon cancer and my brother in law lung cancer right now.)

My prayers go out to you and your family.

Stay strong and hang in there. Positive attitude and good thoughts.

TUG could be a good distraction. Keep us updated and only the best a speedy recovery.
 

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Hi Pam, you will be in my prayers for a speedy recovery as well as your family as you go through this time.


Here is a little humor that will hopefully put a smile on your face.

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Pam -- My prayers are with you as you go through this really really hard and yukky time!! Let us know if you need anything!
 

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Pam, I am thinking of you and sending you wishes for a full recovery.
 

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Pam,
You and your family will be in my prayers until I hear they are pleased with your progress!
I'll need you to help with my -delayed -trip to Mexico! Your suggestions were already very helpful.
EileenS RN
 

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Bummer, cancer is a language no one wants to learn.

Best of luck to you.
 
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