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Dear TUG Members,
Each of you knew John Faeth differently. But I share with you his passing.
John died of a massive stroke, which occurred on Monday the 28th.
You should know he greatly enjoyed being a part of TUG. It brought him laughter, fun, and such
wonderful friendships. Thank you all for the joy you brought to his life.
A Brief Tribute to my Husband John...
He was a tough guy. He was a total softy. He drove me crazy, and I could never keep up with him
AND I LOVED him no matter what. WHY? Simply, he was the FINEST human being I've ever known.
Truly. His heart was bigger than most of us hope to have. He gave when he didn't have to. He
loved those he didn't know. He gave to those in need, regardless of his feelings or desires.
We should all remember the greatest teachings John brought.
Love each other... you don't have to like someone to love them.
Confront- mean what you say and say what you mean.... especially if it's hard to do.
And, always THINK past what you are told... You can make a difference if you use the gift God
gave you and consider more than just what you are told.
Think for yourself.
Live life- travel, explore, think, try, be, consider, and always have heart. That is what John
gave to anyone who listened. Listen now. Go forward with life and love, make him happy. That's
what I ask for him.
The following are 2 Irish Prayers. If so inclined, pour a shot, and drink at the end of each
prayer. He would have loved that... I would love that. Most of all, be kind and loving with all
your heart... that was what he left me... I share it with you.
Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep,
I am not there... I do not sleep.
I am the thousand winds that blow...
I am the diamond glints on snow...
I am the sunlight on ripened grain...
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you waken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of gentle birds in circling flight...
I am the soft star that shines at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry—
I am not there... I did not die...
This is how John said goodbye to those he loved:
May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back,
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
And the rains fall soft upon your fields,
And, until we meet again
May God hold you in the palm of His hand,
So you may be forty years in heaven before the devil knows you're there.
If you have a desire to do something, please honor him with a gift to charity. His favorite
charities were Habitat for Humanity, Hospitalized Veterans, and giving to animal shelters and associations. Even
a small act of random kindness always pleased him greatly.
With great sadness,
Lorelei Faeth
John's Wife
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Added on 5/5/08
John on Vacation on St. John, USVI.
Each of you knew John Faeth differently. But I share with you his passing.
John died of a massive stroke, which occurred on Monday the 28th.
You should know he greatly enjoyed being a part of TUG. It brought him laughter, fun, and such
wonderful friendships. Thank you all for the joy you brought to his life.
A Brief Tribute to my Husband John...
He was a tough guy. He was a total softy. He drove me crazy, and I could never keep up with him
AND I LOVED him no matter what. WHY? Simply, he was the FINEST human being I've ever known.
Truly. His heart was bigger than most of us hope to have. He gave when he didn't have to. He
loved those he didn't know. He gave to those in need, regardless of his feelings or desires.
We should all remember the greatest teachings John brought.
Love each other... you don't have to like someone to love them.
Confront- mean what you say and say what you mean.... especially if it's hard to do.
And, always THINK past what you are told... You can make a difference if you use the gift God
gave you and consider more than just what you are told.
Think for yourself.
Live life- travel, explore, think, try, be, consider, and always have heart. That is what John
gave to anyone who listened. Listen now. Go forward with life and love, make him happy. That's
what I ask for him.
The following are 2 Irish Prayers. If so inclined, pour a shot, and drink at the end of each
prayer. He would have loved that... I would love that. Most of all, be kind and loving with all
your heart... that was what he left me... I share it with you.
Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep,
I am not there... I do not sleep.
I am the thousand winds that blow...
I am the diamond glints on snow...
I am the sunlight on ripened grain...
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you waken in the morning's hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of gentle birds in circling flight...
I am the soft star that shines at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry—
I am not there... I did not die...
This is how John said goodbye to those he loved:
May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back,
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
And the rains fall soft upon your fields,
And, until we meet again
May God hold you in the palm of His hand,
So you may be forty years in heaven before the devil knows you're there.
If you have a desire to do something, please honor him with a gift to charity. His favorite
charities were Habitat for Humanity, Hospitalized Veterans, and giving to animal shelters and associations. Even
a small act of random kindness always pleased him greatly.
With great sadness,
Lorelei Faeth
John's Wife
--------------------------------
Added on 5/5/08
John on Vacation on St. John, USVI.
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I remember calling John about 3 months ago about advice on escrow problems with my WMH. He was not involved nor was he going to get any money out of the transaction (that was already in escrow). Nonetheless, he spent over an hour with me giving me advice, guiding me about my purchases, helping me navigate the escrow process and just sharing his love of his job with me. What a kind and giving person he was. I will truly miss him. My best wishes to his family. Katherine
