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A Fitting Tribute

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I wrote earlier about the personal meaning Memorial Day has for me, and shared it with my TUG friends in a separate post.

In this moving video presented by Hillsdale College, we are all reminded again of the generations of brave soldiers who have given, as Abraham Lincoln so eloquently described, "the last full measure of devotion". May God comfort all of those who today remember those we have lost.
 
My Dad Edward Fatula was part of the Omaha Beach D-Day invasion. His company was in the second wave. They got annihilated, my Dad having the only functional weapon that could fire back in the company. Another survivor in his company, Bob Slaughter, ended up working on the movie Saving Private Ryan as a consultant. They also helped to build the D Day memorial in Bedford Va. Bedford was chosen because they lost the most men per capita since those guys were mostly A and D companies. It basically wiped out the towns males. Several presidents were there when it was dedicated and in later years. After the war, policy was changed to no longer organize units by towns due to this. Bob also has a book on Amazon about the invasion title "Omaha Beach and Beyond". I am lucky enough to have known him, and it's really a good book.

For many years, I attended their reunions. Talking to the guys was really great! And terrible, they had some awful stories about that day, much worse than the movie. Sadly they are gone now. I miss them all. Those were some brave souls.
 
My Dad Edward Fatula was part of the Omaha Beach D-Day invasion. His company was in the second wave. They got annihilated, my Dad having the only functional weapon that could fire back in the company. Another survivor in his company, Bob Slaughter, ended up working on the movie Saving Private Ryan as a consultant. They also helped to build the D Day memorial in Bedford Va. Bedford was chosen because they lost the most men per capita since those guys were mostly A and D companies. It basically wiped out the towns males. Several presidents were there when it was dedicated and in later years. After the war, policy was changed to no longer organize units by towns due to this. Bob also has a book on Amazon about the invasion title "Omaha Beach and Beyond". I am lucky enough to have known him, and it's really a good book.

For many years, I attended their reunions. Talking to the guys was really great! And terrible, they had some awful stories about that day, much worse than the movie. Sadly they are gone now. I miss them all. Those were some brave souls.


Thanks for sharing your memories, Steve, of The Greatest Generation. Just today I met a World War II vet who I did not know at a restaurant and thanked him for his service. He served in the Aleutian Islands and the South Pacific and said, "I saw a lot of hell over there". But he also said this--which is so typical of the heroes who saved the world for democracy: "It was very, very tough--but I would do it again in a heartbeat. The sacrifices were worth it." I bought his lunch as a small token of my appreciation.
 

Thanks for sharing your memories, Steve, of The Greatest Generation. Just today I met a World War II vet who I did not know at a restaurant and thanked him for his service. He served in the Aleutian Islands and the South Pacific and said, "I saw a lot of hell over there". But he also said this--which is so typical of the heroes who saved the world for democracy: "It was very, very tough--but I would do it again in a heartbeat. The sacrifices were worth it." I bought his lunch as a small token of my appreciation.

That was very appropriate of you! I've studied a lot of ww2 history, including the Pacific theater which was nothing like Europe. But you are right, they all 100% believed in what they fought for. My Dad got several medals including some purple hearts which I have. He would fake being ok in the hospital just so he could get back with his guys.

My Dad to his dieing day had nightmares, re-living the war. He lived to 90.
 
My Dad Edward Fatula was part of the Omaha Beach D-Day invasion. His company was in the second wave. They got annihilated, my Dad having the only functional weapon that could fire back in the company. Another survivor in his company, Bob Slaughter, ended up working on the movie Saving Private Ryan as a consultant. They also helped to build the D Day memorial in Bedford Va. Bedford was chosen because they lost the most men per capita since those guys were mostly A and D companies. It basically wiped out the towns males. Several presidents were there when it was dedicated and in later years. After the war, policy was changed to no longer organize units by towns due to this. Bob also has a book on Amazon about the invasion title "Omaha Beach and Beyond". I am lucky enough to have known him, and it's really a good book.

For many years, I attended their reunions. Talking to the guys was really great! And terrible, they had some awful stories about that day, much worse than the movie. Sadly they are gone now. I miss them all. Those were some brave souls.


Hi Steve,

My wife's nephew has a vacation home on Smith Mountain Lake in Moneta, VA. A number of years ago, we visited them at their vacation home. During that trip, we visited the D-Day Memorial in Bedford which was not too far away. This is when I first learned about the many soldiers from Bedford who lost their lives during the Omaha Beach D-Day invasion.

Just yesterday, I received an email from BookBub announcing the sale of an eBook: " The Bedford Boys" by Alex Kershaw

For those interested in learning more about their story here is a link:
https://www.bookbub.com/books/the-bedford-boys-by-alex-kershaw?ebook_deal

The Bedford Boys
by Alex Kershaw
5.00(2 ratings)
From a New York Times bestselling author: On D-Day, the young men of a small American town risked everything for victory — and paid a terrible price. This true story of heroism in World War II is “accessible and moving” (Publishers Weekly).
Publisher Description
June 6, 1944: Nineteen boys from Bedford, Virginia--population just 3,000 in 1944--died in the first bloody minutes of D-Day. They were part of Company A of the 116th Regiment of the 29th Division, and the first wave of American soldiers to hit the beaches in Normandy. Later in the campaign, three more boys from this small Virginia town died of gunshot wounds. Twenty-two sons of Bedford lost--it is a story one cannot easily forget and one that the families of Bedford will never forget. The Bedford Boys is the true and intimate story of these men and the friends and families they left behind.Based on extensive interviews with survivors and relatives, as well as diaries and letters, Kershaw’s book focuses on several remarkable individuals and families to tell one of the most poignant stories of World War II--the story of one small American town that went to war and died on Omaha Beach.
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Thanks for sharing the story of your Dad and Bob Slaughter and for the tribute to them on this Memorial Day.

Best Regards,

Richard
 
Fantastic, Richard. Thanks for the recommendation. It's now on my Kindle.
 
WalnutBaron,
Thanks for posting the link to the video. It was a great reminder of those who have given their all, as we reflect on the importance of this Memorial Day. I love the quote from President Abraham Lincoln at the end....

“highly resolve that these dead shall not have died in vain—that this nation, under God, shall have a new birth of freedom—and that government of the people, by the people, for the people, shall not perish from the earth.”
 
May God comfort all of those who today remember those we have lost.

My Dad Edward Fatula was part of the Omaha Beach D-Day invasion. His company was in the second wave. They got annihilated, Sadly they are gone now. I miss them all. Those were some brave souls.

Thanks WalnutBaron. It is important that we remember and reflect on the sacrifices made by so many over the years to ensure we enjoy the freedoms we have today.

I have stood in the pillbox at the tip of Pointe du Hoc at the west end of Omaha Beach, looking down from the cliffs, and also further east where the cliffs overlooking Omaha Beach give way to tall steep hills. I marvel that anyone managed to get off the beach that day!! I had the same feeling standing in front of Queen's Own Rifles House on Juno Beach and looking at the clear line of sight from the pill box on the left, and also when standing on the shale beach in front of the seawall, looking up at the commanding cliffs to the right of the harbour in the town of Dieppe.

How did any survive? It must have been hell for so many like your father, Steve. It is a miracle that the Allies prevailed on D-Day. It is also a testament to the bravery of all those who persevered, whether they lived or died. Lest we forget!

They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old:
Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.
At the going down of the sun and in the morning,
We will remember them.

("The Ode of Remembrance", Laurence Binyon, 1914)
 
How did any survive? It must have been hell for so many like your father, Steve. It is a miracle that the Allies prevailed on D-Day. It is also a testament to the bravery of all those who persevered, whether they lived or died. Lest we forget!

Well, without getting too morbid, think human shields as one technique. There was supposed to be and they were promised holes in the beach due to bombardment but the battleship couldn't help as much as planned due to too rough seas, and, bombers never did much either, it was a huge mistake on our part. You have to understand too, this was a national guard division. The rough seas also made the guys have to walk much further in water, not a great defensive position either. Some with all their equipment who were not as tall sank straight to the bottom and drowned because of this. Tanks had major problems as well due to the rough seas. It was a very big mess. Few landed where they were supposed to, so, mass chaos.
 
I'm bumping this post from two years ago as a way of reminding us all why we celebrate Memorial Day. And though the world is much different than it was two years ago, it does not diminish the great debt that all Americans owe to the brave men and women who serve us today in the U.S. Army, Navy, Air Force, Marines, and Coast Guard. We also remember the sacrifices of the many thousands who have paid the ultimate price to preserve the freedom we enjoy and our way of life. To all of the veterans among us, thank you. To all of the families who have children or grandchildren serving in the Armed Forces, thank you.

As our greatest President reminded us in his timeless address at a memorial for the fallen, "It is for us the living, rather, to be dedicated here to the unfinished work which they who fought here have thus far so nobly advanced. It is rather for us to be here dedicated to the great task remaining before us -- that from these honored dead we take increased devotion to that cause for which they gave the last full measure of devotion -- that we here highly resolve that these dead shall not have died in vain -- that this nation, under God, shall have a new birth of freedom -- and that government of the people, by the people, for the people, shall not perish from the earth."

As I did two years ago, I again commend to each of you this moving tribute from Hillsdale College:



 
Thank you for re-posting that, WalnutBaron. It is as moving now as it was two years ago, maybe even more so, as the world faces another war, albeit this time against an enemy that moves amongst us often unseen until it is too late. Two years ago who thought we might be once again facing such a crisis as this pandemic?

For over a century now, Americans and Canadians have fought side-by-side as comrades-in-arms when the call came to face down a common threat. It started with the ditches, fields and skies of Europe in two world wars, and continued with the jungles and cities of south-east Asia in WWII, the naval convoys and battles on both the Atlantic and the Pacific, the hills of Korea, the destruction in Kosovo, the deserts of Kuwait, to the battle against terrorism in Afghanistan and even now the continuing battles in Iraq and Syria.

So many lives given for the cause of freedom from tyranny and oppression. Those sacrifices must be honoured every day, but especially on days like Memorial Day, when we need to pause and give thanks. Most of the Greatest Generation are now gone. They set such a fine example of sacrifice. After battling the hardships of the Great Depression, they readily took up the call to arms in WWII and upon their return vowed to create a better world. I am happy one of them is still alive. My father-in-law served with the Canadian Army in WWII from Normandy through to victory in Germany. He celebrated his 100th birthday last fall!

He has talked more recently to me about what it was like, some of which none of us would prefer to experience. Yet they persevered and would do it again, if called. My wife and I took him on a tour of north-west Europe in 2004 during the 60th D-Day celebrations, from the mouth of the Loire to the Dutch-German border. At 85 it was his first trip back to the continent since the war. He told us it gave him a great sense of peace and satisfaction. The memories of destruction and loss, of starving people and death everywhere, could be replaced with scenes of prosperity and people enjoying happy, free lives. He was thanked by so many people on that trip for what he had helped accomplish, including an amazing German couple, that it overwhelmed him at times. I think it was cathartic for him and he often still comments on how much he enjoyed the trip and how glad he was to have been able to do it.

As part of the pilgrimage we made sure to also pay our respects wherever we could, from the Canadian cemetery in Normandy at Bény-sur-mer, to the cemeteries at Dieppe and Vimy Ridge, the memorial for the Battle of St. Julien and the Menin Gate in Belgium, to the Holten and Groesbeek Canadian war cemeteries in Holland. Each time we would sign the guest book and then wander the rows of head stones and realize how young so many of them were. They gave their tomorrows so that we could have our todays. It is so important that we remember that, and not just on days like Memorial Day or Remembrance Day.

Watching the film clip again, I am reminded how much of a difference strong, inclusive and visionary leadership can make when a nation is faced with a crisis or enemy. Reagan's moving words at the beginning and Lincoln's words at the end are such fine examples of how often America has been blessed by such stellar leadership. I think the Gettysburg address is probably one of the all-time most moving and inspiring addresses, right up there with Churchill's "on the beaches", "never was so much owed by so many to so few" and "some chicken, some neck" addresses.

Blessings on Memorial Day to all my American cousins. Long may the Star Spangled Banner and the Maple Leaf fly together over free nations. My thanks and gratitude to all those who have served or are serving, and especially those who paid the ultimate sacrifice. This year that particularly includes all those front-line workers who have taken up the challenge to save lives, even while potentially endangering their own. Thank you for your service!! :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:

Lest we forget!
 
As part of the pilgrimage we made sure to also pay our respects wherever we could, from the Canadian cemetery in Normandy at Bény-sur-mer, to the cemeteries at Dieppe and Vimy Ridge, the memorial for the Battle of St. Julien and the Menin Gate in Belgium, to the Holten and Groesbeek Canadian war cemeteries in Holland. Each time we would sign the guest book and then wander the rows of head stones and realize how young so many of them were. They gave their tomorrows so that we could have our todays. It is so important that we remember that, and not just on days like Memorial Day or Remembrance Day.
@CanuckTravlr , thank you. You have perfectly captured the somber meaning of Memorial Day with reverence and eloquence. Thanks so much for sharing the story of your father-in-law. As you wrote of it, I could picture the wonder he must have felt in his heart to see a peaceful Europe where, before your pilgrimage, he had left so much destruction and despair. And I could sense the sorrow as all of the memories of his youth came flooding back, and of the names and faces of the young men he must have pictured and talked about who did not return.

Some would say these memories are a thing of the past, and that Memorial Day should be all about bar-b-ques and beach visits and the unofficial start to summer. But if we do not take time today to remember the great sacrifices of those who have gone before us, we will not learn from the horrors of yesterday. One of America's great warriors--William Tecumseh Sherman--put it starkly:
"I am tired and sick of war. Its glory is all moonshine. It is only those who have neither fired a shot nor heard the shrieks and groans of the wounded who cry aloud for blood, for vengeance, for desolation. War is hell."

Would that our national leaders remember that.

Lest we forget.
 
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