The other way of looking at it is that most people driving today are driving distracted, whether via their smartphone, fiddling with their HVAC controls, radio controls, talking on the phone (even via Bluetooth is still distracting as studies have consistently demonstrated). So if we accept the premise that likely around 50% of drivers, at least, are already driving distracted, then driving a Tesla with FSD means that the driver in question is safer than the average distracted human driver. Tesla states 7x safer. As you said, a distracted from driving driver is not a good thing. A distracted ICE driver is very likely provably worse than a distracted Tesla driver using FSD, and that same ICE driver is much more likely to cause an accident than a distracted Tesla driver using FSD.
There are countless real videos online of Tesla FSD avoiding accidents from distracted ICE drivers around the Tesla vehicle - just search for them if interested. There are literally thousands of these videos posted online.
And yes, SDVs are software driven. How many cars have you owned that consistently get better over time from OTA software updates, introducing improvements and new features on vehicles since 2012? Tesla vehicles as old as 2014 with FSD using HW3 just received FSD v14 Lite this week - a major upgrade to the FSD stack for millions of HW3 Tesla vehicles already on the road that brought true to door to door driving to HW3 vehicles. Many other software upgrades and new feature releases have been introduced as well. Just as one example, Tesla introduced hands free trunk release late last year - hands full of grocery bags? Just toggle on the new feature in the UI and stand behind the trunk for two seconds and the car blinks the rear tail lights twice and the trunk opens hands free. Just one of at least a dozen software updates that every Tesla on the road received. Tesla vehicles, built using SDV principles, really do get better, in some cases noticeably better, over time. What you seem to view as a negative, those of us with real world experience know without a doubt to be a net positive - because we live it and love it every day.
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