I've tested a couple of oven calibration thermometers and gotten different readings on them, too.
I'll use a thermometer, and an oven thermometer, but I've gotten to the point my primary judgement will be as Ron mentioned, the old fallback: Are juices running pink? Do the legs freely move?
And I never trust those built-in thermometers which come with some turkeys. I always double-check those against other methods.
I never buy turkeys that have those little plastic "thermostats." But in the rare case that I'm stuck with one, I remove it and use the hole to insert a probe thermometer.
So calibrate your calibration thermometers. If they can't be calibrated, they are poor measuring instruments. Sticking forks and skewers into birds is fine. But knowing the temperature of one's oven is also the goal here. Most home cooks don't have a clue what they're really baking and roasting at.
And also, while the bird may be "done" when juices run clear. It's really
done when the internal temperature reads 165f. No more than that. Any more than that is just drying out the bird. Wiggling legs isn't going to help an overcooked bird. And it just slows things down to constantly open the oven to check the bird. Better to have an accurate probe thermometer. Then the cook can pull the bird a few degrees below 165 and let carryover do the rest.
The things that (in general) separate home cooks from professional cooks:
1) Home cooks don't make or use nearly enough stock. Most don't know how.
2) Shallots. Home cooks don't use them. Most kitchens go through crates of shallots every day/week.
3) Compound butter. And fresh herbs. Home cooks don't make compound butter, and they don't know where/when to add fresh herbs.
4) Knowing the temperature -- with certainty -- in their ovens. Since they don't know what temperature they're cooking at, their roasts and baked goods are substandard.
5) The concept of carryover cooking. Most home cooks don't get that one.
6) Knowing how to brown and caramelize things. Most home cooks turn out gray "browned" meat. They steam instead of sauté. They overcrowd their pans. And Their pots aren't heavy enough to properly caramelize onions. So they make boiled onion soup instead of French onion soup.
7) Most home cooks have dull knives and bad knife skills. They don't cut things to a uniform size. So we end up with vegetable dishes with both undercooked and overcooked components.
There are plenty of home cooks who not only get all of the above, they're better at it than most professional cooks. But in general, the most home cooks should really work on the above seven things.