Thanks for the info, we have decided that we will do everything but Disney on this trip. We just purchased the Busch Gardens Platinum pass since we will be in Williamsburg 3/30-4/6. It just made better sense for what the kids want to do. We visit Williamsburg at least once a year and will be going to Sesame Place in August and San Antonio in February so the value is pretty good for us. We will visit Seaworld and Aquatica one day Busch Gardens and the neighboring water park another. We decided that we will just book a hotel for a night in Tampa so that we have plenty of time to enjoy the beach and aquarium the next day. Beyond that the other 4 days will be spent as down time perhaps doing 1 local activity a day like Ripleys or Gatorland.
We have also decided that we will come back for a Disney only experience. We have heard that Christmas is a vey busy time so we are looking at other times of year. Perhaps next year for Spring Break.
If your family likes fun thrill rides they will love Busch Gardens. The animals are great and the rides are wonderful. You must take your kids to Disney sometime in their lifetime just so they can say they have been there and see what it is like, but after going to Busch Gardens and/or Universal Studios IOA they might be bored with Disney.
I went to Disney every year from the year it opened until I hit college and told my parents i didn't want to go there anymore. They said we were going because we thought you and your brother loved it. We said we outgrew Disney. They said good because they were sick of it too. I hoped to never have to go to Disney again but I knew I would have to when I had kids.
We carried our kids almost every year from when they were infants until their early teens and when they were young they loved it. I enjoyed seeing them have fun and the rides were great for little kids. Once my children became teenagers they never wanted to go to Disney again. Our whole family feels the lines are too long for boring kiddie rides. Space mountain yawn, Pirates of the Caribbean, snooze, Epcot (once there was too much), etc. etc. Yes the Tower of Terror is good and I heard the coaster at Animal kingdom is good, and the rock n roller coaster is also supposed to be good, but who want to go to a park and spend $75 for one decent ride? Not me or my family.
Here comes the Disney devotees. But the rides at disney are "themed". So what. You walk through long lines with hour plus waits while looking at a "theme" all the way to the ride entrance. Whoopee. An hour in 90 plus degree heat with 90% humidity is miserable with or without a "theme". The payoff of long lines is a great ride. Not at Disney. You stand in line for an hour plus to get a 3 minute boring ride. My kids had a Teddy Ruxpin doll that had animatronics at the house, why do I want to stand in line for an hour or more to see fake animatronic presidents stand and talk? The haunted house has a fun first room scare before you get on the ride, after that ZZZZ. If I hear the song " it's a small world after all" again in my life I might get off of the boat and try to drown myself in the 2 foot of water. The 20,000 leagues under the sea submarine can't even use real fish? My 4 year old said look daddy the fish are fake and on a string. The Jungle Cruise doesn't have a single real live animal anywhere. 2 year olds know the elephants aren't real. To say negative things about Disney is to risk death threats on this forum, but it is true for us and maybe for you too. This is JMHO.
We LOVE Busch Gardens, Sea World, and Universal IOA in that order. The numerous roller coasters with loops, rolls, 90 degree drops, where you lay on your stomach like you are flying, where your feet swing free, etc, etc are our favorites. We love the thrill rides. Montu, Kumba, The Hulk, Sheikra, The Manta Ray,duelling dragons, Spiderman, Harry Potter (haven't ridden it yet), etc are all great. We have been to Orlando 5 or 6 times straight without visiting a Disney park, and that includes a company trip where we stayed on Disney property at the Swan 2 years ago. We left the Swan and drove to Sea World, Busch Gardens, and Universal while never entering anything Disney other than the hotel and the piano bar (Jelly Rolls?).
The great news is that you are going to have a great time doing everything non Disney. The bad news is that if you had done Disney first you might have enjoyed it more. Once you have done the other parks (Busch Gardens, Sea World, Universal) Disney and it's rides are a yawn fest. JMHO