For me, the first thing that made me realize that ian was a real possibility was on our first date in November, my son called for directions ... he had gotten lost in Dallas, It took me about 20 minutes to talk Jordan through to where he was going. Ian was so kind and understanding about it.
Christmas was a few weeks later and Ian suggested that he get Jordan a navigation system. At the time, they were still quite expensive. He helped me choose (which means he chose) and then surprised me by paying for it. Then Ian took the time to teach him to use it.
A few months later, Jordan wanted to make a 3 hour drive to East Texas to see his cousins. I didn't want him driving that far by his self. At the time, Ian had a Sportsmobile (a van based RV) and he suggested that we take the RV and camp while Jordan visited with his cousins. The van was easy to spot and Jordan had no trouble following us.
The whole time I was married to my first husband, I had always wanted to go to Caddo Lake. It's only a 20 minutes drive from my ex's parents' house and he would never go. When I mentioned this to Ian, he was fine with camping there.
It was lovely. And so calm and quiet. The air was so clean. I usually have terrible insomnia, but there, I slept soundly. When I woke up, it was noon. Ian was sitting beside me just waiting for me to wake up. I was really touched. That is when I knew that I loved him.
elaine
Christmas was a few weeks later and Ian suggested that he get Jordan a navigation system. At the time, they were still quite expensive. He helped me choose (which means he chose) and then surprised me by paying for it. Then Ian took the time to teach him to use it.
A few months later, Jordan wanted to make a 3 hour drive to East Texas to see his cousins. I didn't want him driving that far by his self. At the time, Ian had a Sportsmobile (a van based RV) and he suggested that we take the RV and camp while Jordan visited with his cousins. The van was easy to spot and Jordan had no trouble following us.
The whole time I was married to my first husband, I had always wanted to go to Caddo Lake. It's only a 20 minutes drive from my ex's parents' house and he would never go. When I mentioned this to Ian, he was fine with camping there.
It was lovely. And so calm and quiet. The air was so clean. I usually have terrible insomnia, but there, I slept soundly. When I woke up, it was noon. Ian was sitting beside me just waiting for me to wake up. I was really touched. That is when I knew that I loved him.
elaine