I have a soon to be 12 year old son. He has a cell phone, but only for communication with my husband and I. He is not allowed to call/receive calls from friends. He has recently gotten a whole new set of friends from his football team. They all walk around with their cell phones like they are stock brokers. Of course he wants the same freedom as they have, so it has become a constant fight.
When these kids are at my house, they are constantly on the phone and texting. I saw them all gathered around one of the boys as he was texting girls one day. I told my son that when he is ready to start talking to girls (and I think he's a little young), he should call her house and ask her parents if it is o.k. to talk to them. I would be upset if I had a daughter and there were boys calling and texting her on her cell phone.
I feel that now that all of his friends have all this freedom with their cell phones, I am completely losing control. Our computer is in the family room. I have never felt that it is safe for a child to have access to the internet in private. It is a crazy world out there. If these kids have their cell phone numbers floating around, heaven knows who could get in contact with them. I think it is an invitation to trouble. There is no control over who they are talking to or who they are hanging around with. Am I being over protective?
When these kids are at my house, they are constantly on the phone and texting. I saw them all gathered around one of the boys as he was texting girls one day. I told my son that when he is ready to start talking to girls (and I think he's a little young), he should call her house and ask her parents if it is o.k. to talk to them. I would be upset if I had a daughter and there were boys calling and texting her on her cell phone.
I feel that now that all of his friends have all this freedom with their cell phones, I am completely losing control. Our computer is in the family room. I have never felt that it is safe for a child to have access to the internet in private. It is a crazy world out there. If these kids have their cell phone numbers floating around, heaven knows who could get in contact with them. I think it is an invitation to trouble. There is no control over who they are talking to or who they are hanging around with. Am I being over protective?